But the thing is that we both love our parents a lot. Though we love each other, we see no possibility to get together happily afterwards, makin our parents unhappy. We dont want to make our parents unhappy but we dont know any other way. plz suggest me......
2007-06-30 11:38:39 · 15 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go ask other muslim women and see if you can handle that kind of life yourself with no regard to what your parents may feel. Most women can't so don't blame that on your parents.
2007-06-30 11:44:45 · answer #1 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a parent. I love my kids. As much as spirituality is important to me, my kids happiness is more important. If my daughter or son loved a person of a different religion and/or race, my concern would be to see how to help them deal with differing beliefs and cultures.
Its 2007. There are options, you know. You can marry, practice your religions sperately and have a happy life. One of you could also convert, if you wanted. The wonderful thing about religion is that the basics are the same.
I had a friend in school who had a Catholic mother and a Jewish father. Their marriage was a happy one and my friend was brought up in both faiths.
You should talk to each other about your options and then talk to your families. If they see that the love you share is genuine, that you are in a stable relationship, that you make each other happy and that you respect each others beliefs...well, the rest can be worked out.
2007-06-30 18:54:47 · answer #2 · answered by Melanie J 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People get married to make themselves happy. True, there are family loyalties and roots to consider but in the end love can heal all wounds, real or imaginary. I always regretted not marrying someone I loved ...... it stays with you all your life....like being haunted by what might have been.
2007-06-30 18:45:06 · answer #3 · answered by Joline 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont live your life based on what some one else thinks! If your parents love you like you love them they'll let oyu be happy!
2007-06-30 18:41:09 · answer #4 · answered by babygrl20052000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run as fast as you can to the nearest exit. Forget it. As the Century pogresses there will be more and more intolerance toward muslims.
2007-06-30 18:45:34 · answer #5 · answered by Theatre Doc 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its your future, not your parnets, not anyones but yours. If he makes you happy, marry him.
and how everyone says dont marry a muslim, F them. I'm muslim and everyone else f-u. its like me saying, chirstian are going to be in the kkk or some crap like that.
2007-06-30 18:42:34 · answer #6 · answered by the_phoenix_flames 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would run far away from that. you don't want family turmoil. seriously- you spend most of your time trying to please your parents and not concentrate on your relationship and what makes you happy. keep him as a friend but... it's not worth the fuss.
2007-06-30 18:44:30 · answer #7 · answered by jkpzboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be equally yoked. If you don't really see this as a problem for you then go for it! If you have issues with his religion then proceed with caution.
2007-06-30 18:43:51 · answer #8 · answered by Sha Sha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit while you're ahead, marriage to a muslim man would be the beginning of the end for you.
2007-06-30 18:40:55 · answer #9 · answered by tricycle_pilot 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
try to understand his features before focusing on his religion
it's better to forget him if he's to much religious and he doesn't give you the opportunity to live easily in your society
2007-06-30 19:00:32 · answer #10 · answered by jazzar h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋