I dont know wut 2 do and this wasnt meant and im scared.
2007-06-30 11:34:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
thanx 4 ur help. :) no im not gettin an abortion it is so meen srry. i might put it up 4 adotpion bt i dont no. i meen wut if i regrett it. i told mike yestarday n hes mad i gess but he told me he still luvs me and will 4ever. thanx.
2007-06-30 11:51:50 · update #1
You must first find someone to give you emotional support, wheater it's a parent, or a close relative, also there are options like adoption if you dont feel your capable of taking care of your child. And last but not least ask God for peace and guidance. I will pray for you little one. I too got pregnant at 16. I have a handsome 30 year old son!! God bless!!
2007-06-30 11:44:12 · answer #1 · answered by fancy_dame 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
#1. Don't get an abortion. You will regret it for the rest of your life. Everyone that I know of that has done it has regretted it. It has been over 20 years since my mother had an abortion and she still regrets it to the point where she has the birthstone the babies due date was in around her neck. Another has been suicidal since her abortion. And those are just two of the cases I know of.
#2. Do you want the baby? If not look into adoption. There are many good people out there that are unable to have children and really want one. You could give your child and other people a chance at happiness. I find abortion very selfish in case you haven't noticed. Your child is innocent and has not had the opportunity to do anything wrong and so can not, in any sane persons mind, deserve to die. So please give it up for adoption if you do not want it.
#3. Do not think it is impossible just because of you age. One of the best teacher that I ever had was pregnant at 16 and kept her baby. It makes life a lot harder but it is very possible.
It is not as uncommon as you may think.
Take care of yourself and your baby. And please listen to my warning about abortions.
2007-06-30 11:58:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to talk to someone in real life.
Getting pregnant at 16 is not the end of the world. You have to just deal with it in the right way.
Talk your parents or another adult that you can trust. Realize, they are human and they are going to be upset. Ride it out.
Tell the guy who got you pregnant next.
See a doctor.
Whether you decide to have the baby, put it up for adoption or have an abortion, you need to really think about what is best for you AND your baby and think about what you can live with.
After this pregnancy is over, get on birth control! Don't let this happen again! AND use a condom! Better safe than sorry.
2007-06-30 11:44:20 · answer #3 · answered by Samantha 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Listen I understand what your going though. I was 18 when I got pregnant and it wasn't supposed to happen either. My man however did step up and be the babies daddy, however I think family is what helped me out the most. I was still in school at the time and I did get a lot of crap from my classmates but its not them who mattered it was my child. I kept my baby and he is now 3yrs old. I am now married to his daddy and we are a great family. Times are hard when your young with a kid and even if you might not want help from a lot of people you do need to accept it, you will not beable to make it alone. Get help and support from anyone you can. Please just don't get an abortion. I almost did and it would have been the biggest mistake I would have ever made. Even though you might think that you weren't supposed to get pregnant there is a reason why you are and you might not understand that reason now but someday you will. Just remember if you think you can handle being a mom at a young age you can as long as you believe in yourself and trust your heart. If you would like to talk more please don't hesitate to email me k_go4dagoal@yahoo.com.
2007-06-30 11:45:27 · answer #4 · answered by soccer_babe_1508 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was pregnant at 17 and my husband was 16 at the time. We decided to have the baby. We were honest to our parents and got mixed feeling from both sides. In the end both families came around and helped us out when they could. My husband and I have now been together for 7 years and we are expecting our second child any day. Having our first son was the best decision we could have made!!! It made us grow up much faster and was often hard, but it has made us more responsible people. I don't know what your relationship is with the father, but my only advice is DO NOT get married just because your having a baby. Like I said my husband and I have been together for the past 7 years, but we have only been married for a little over a year. I did not want to marry someone just because we were having a baby, I wanted to marry someone because I was truly in love with that person and wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. If you decide to have the baby, I think it is best to get it out in the open with family and friends. They are going to find out eventually and keeping a secret like that will only stress you and the baby out. Best of Luck with what ever you decide and God Bless!!!
2007-06-30 11:54:57 · answer #5 · answered by Amber 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if Ur thin kin on keep in the baby then u can get help from family or friends before u do anything drastic think about it and also think bout the things u would regret i was scared when i found out i was 18 now am 19(birthday was a few weeks ago) and due in 7weeks with my first but a calmed down forst and looks at both good and bad at the beginin there was more bad but now am not regretting it i can not wait til he is here
good luck with ur decision
2007-06-30 11:45:26 · answer #6 · answered by mummy of 2gorgeous boys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be scared. Trust me, it's going to be okay. This happened to my brother's girlfriend. She found out she was several months along at 18. Now she has a teenage daughter Marie who she wouldn't give up for anything. Tell your parents, you need to get proper care. And don't, I repeat don't, get an abortion. I don't see much wrong with adoption but I can see why you don't want to. Just be sure that your unborn child gets taken care of and you finish your education.
Lizabeth
2007-06-30 12:19:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost, as hard as it may be, you need to tell someone close to you (your mom, dad, or another close family memeber). Yes, it is going to be hard, but they are your parents, and they are going to love you no matter what. We've all made mistakes, and regardless of what you may think, your parents understand that. Don't expect them to be happy about it, because it's doubtful that they will be...they are going to be disappointed with you, but THEY STILL LOVE YOU! After you've told them, you all, as a family, can discuss your options and figure out what is best for everyone. I hope that helps a little and good luck!
2007-06-30 11:40:48 · answer #8 · answered by Katherine 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First DO NOT GET AN ABORTION!!!!, you will not be able to get over the fact that you killed a child. Do tell someone close to you, and the father, then look into adoption because i am so sure that theres a family out there who could take good care of your child. Good luck!!
2007-06-30 11:49:48 · answer #9 · answered by superchic92 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
go to this place before getting an abortion...they can help you and talk to you online right now http://www.birthchoiceoc.org/
if you dont...do you really want this to happen to something you created..http://sibbyonline.blogs.com/sibbyonline/images/abortion0801_1.jpeg
you could also put it up for adoption.... if you want to talk more . email me at cathaynes94@yahoo
2007-06-30 11:45:43 · answer #10 · answered by cathaynes94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋