i e-mail this guy i met on the net.he is from another country and says he fell in love with me but can`t leave his wife.he said he`s commited to her,yet he writes me and says he loves me.
2007-06-30 11:33:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes this must be an Indian guy as usual. This game of befooling foreigner ladies by few Indian guys out here is nothing new. Whether he is married or unmarried the fact is that these guys talk like true lovers & in reality looking for immigration to the country from where such foreigner lady belongs to. If he is unmarried he would like to marry this lady, precure immigration to the country on the basis of the marriage certificate & one the very first opportunity give divorce to the poor lady. If he is married he will show how unhappy he’s with his wife out here & would like to leave her as soon as possible but divorce in India is not so easy to get & it takes million years to get so he can't do any thing but wait for it, but he is desperate for this lady & this poor foreigner lady just believe this rascal not knowing his real intentions to use this lady for his immigration to her country on her risk & cost ,then leave her & call her real wife to that country. I'm a person big enough to be your dad’s age & will not tell you wrong, JUST AVOID ALL THESE GUYS OUT FROM THIS COUNTRY. I have come across not one but many ladies like you who have been used or are being used by such guys.
2007-06-30 21:55:47 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way, if he were your husband and yet he says hes in love with another girl what would you want him to do? Work it out or leave? Look, I know it looks, sounds, and feels real but what ya'll are dealing with is an infatuation. No matter how long you have known this guy over the net he will be quite a bit different in real life than he says he is. When it comes to affairs it isn't a true love that you are dealing with, the person you are having an affair with is just filling those needs they have that their spouse isn't filling. Would you want some other girl filling those needs of your husband that you weren't filling? Please, be respectful of the wife and back off. You are helping to ruin a marriage than needs help desperately. I know he may say he really wants you but you need to let him go. If you truly love him you will do this for the betterment of him and his family.
2007-06-30 11:45:29 · answer #2 · answered by emerys4christ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhhh what part of this do you NOT THINK IS WRONG? You need to STOP all contact with this guy. He is already married and is a total f*cking moron for telling you he is in love with you to begin with. If he has a horrible marriage then let him deal with that on his own. You aren't helping the situation and he already told you he is NOT leaving her. So what's the point of him telling you he loves you??? There is NO point and he's just a stupid moron. I'm sorry, but this just isn't realistic and you're putting your energy into something that is never going to go anywhere. For one, this guy is in another country, two he is MARRIED!!!!! And three, he already explained to you he is commited. What part of "your wasting your time" do you not understand? I don't mean to come off as being harsh, but I just have no tolerance for people who have no respect for marriage.
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2007-06-30 11:52:01 · answer #4 · answered by bylovemagic 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2015-01-28 09:18:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would realize that I was being played with emotionally... I would get some pride in myself and realize that I can do better than a some random person online and seek out a meaningful relationship with someone who knows what vows are and how to keep them.
2007-06-30 11:41:44 · answer #6 · answered by Aron1968_30 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What BS. If he can't leave his wife, he isn't going to...and why are you communicating with married men? Don't ruin your life or others by playing with fire.
2007-06-30 11:40:42 · answer #7 · answered by Froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop your insanity. find a man close by and quit relying on some other woman's husband for love. you should be better than that!
2007-06-30 11:46:56 · answer #8 · answered by jkpzboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-08-10 13:11:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him like a bad habit. He apparently has no problem starting relationships when his last mate still thinks she has one with her.
2007-07-01 07:37:40 · answer #10 · answered by mikeim2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋