I developed a crush on this guy at work mistake! I get to know him a little. Attention and flirting came and went back and forth. He's a Gemini and I am a Libra. I started to get feelings dumb. Each time I pulled away he found a new way to draw me in was it a thrill? I think he cared for me but he knew he could not show it. We're both married. I know he was having attention deficiency at home the wife was always putting him down. I felt sorry for him. Nothing physically happened. It was mostly all MENTAL. Problem is mental things stay in your mind for a long time. I got really depressed and my friend told him I had a crush my feelings were killing and hurting me. We told her it must have been his after shave smell that did it. We never got that physically close t each other. Was he putting himself down how could I have a crush on him who his wife says it crap or was he poking fun at me? How do I purge the feelings I can't stop crying. He also avoids me at all costs is he afraid?
2007-06-30 11:27:06 · 6 answers · asked by h 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
just be thankful it didn't go farther than this, and your marriage is still in tact. he avoids u because he was never serious in the first place, and don't believe everything u heard about his wife, its just a cop out something men use to get u to do what they want. stay away from him, and don't feel badly because u lost out, all u lost was a life of misery, because whatever he said about his wife, he would also say about u when there were any kind of altercation at all. u focus on your own husband, and forget the fool.
2007-06-30 12:15:56 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How do you know his wife was putting him down because he told you this. If she was that bad he would leave her it's that simple.Did he tell you he couldn't leave because of the kids or some other reason.When a man wants to leave he
leaves,when will the other woman realize that 9 out of 10 times the man will not leave his wife and the reason being because he loves her. All he is doing is playing around and getting all he can get from the other woman. It's really sad how women take these married men so serious .Who is always the one who gets hurt and walks away with nothing but a broken heart, the other woman that's who.I no you think he was serious about you and i bet he was very convincing after all he did want something from you and if you would of gave in and met him somewhere it would of happened.When your heart stops hurting and you look at him and see the real person you'll feel pretty stupid about letting your self go as far as you did thank god you didn't go all the way.
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2007-06-30 11:54:52 · answer #3 · answered by bylovemagic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only one way I can see you overcoming this deep emotional pain. You must eat chocolate ice cream. Two to three pints a day should do the trick. In time, your chafing thighs and multiple chins, along with your new diabetes diagnosis will replace the pain of love that couldn't be.
*Good Luck.
2007-06-30 12:11:43 · answer #4 · answered by Tim_Henson's_Army 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There were instances in which I suggestion he permit me down, and you already know what- It all grew to become out to be for the great. I believe that god has performed not anything however smile upon me considering the day I was once born :)
2016-09-05 11:06:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is to play the game! That is if you're interested.
If you pull back when he's attentive, that will intrigue him :)
Ignore him when he becomes attentive, not too much, just enough!
It all depends on how far you want to take this...
Try not to let it hurt (I know that's hard)
I promise the payoff is worth it :)
2007-06-30 13:28:51 · answer #6 · answered by Cheeky 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋