I'm sure he has NO any kinds of financial difficulties & he's NOT saving for big. He's a wealthy person and he buys all the luxury stuffs for himself but nothing for me. He did nothing 2 please me & he's selfish. If you were I, would you dump him?
2007-06-30 11:09:04 · 3 answers · asked by provemeuloveme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would never have dumped anyone just b/c they weren't spending money on me. However, if other things were going wrong in the relationship (more important things) then I would consider it. You mentioned he is selfish as well...does he not spend enough quality time with you or focus on your needs at all? If so, then I think you may have a valid reason to break up...if it's only b/c he doesn't buy you anything then I would say that is a pretty dumb reason to end a relationship.
2007-06-30 11:21:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would dump him asap. When someone won't give you anything, they view you as something to be used.
For example, you wouldn't buy things, write poetry, or consider as important a deck chair at your health club, would you? You'd think of it as an asset, something that just comes free with your membership.
Well, that's how your boyfriend sees you, as a thing. When someone won't cherish you, they will use you. He'd just as soon take your money, eat up your food, and walk on your face as kiss you, if he ended up broke tomorrow.
You deserve better. A poor man who looks out for you and shares what he has is much better than a rich jerk.
2007-06-30 19:03:11 · answer #2 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep and i would be aware of people like that hes not good husband material.
2007-07-03 22:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋