this question was probably asked by many before... I mean when do you know after you have been with someone for a long time that the real love is not there any more... you still have a good realationship because of some years together and you are kind of family but... ???
2007-06-30 10:42:16 · 8 answers · asked by Mara 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I saw a show where it had a couple who had been together for 50+years. When they asked the couple how they didn't fall out of love and just end things.The old man replied oh we did fall out of love, but not at the same time.So there was always one of them pulling for the other.
I say you can fall back in love if you give it time and work on it.
It's only over when neither of you are working at it.
2007-06-30 10:49:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am wondering what your expectations are. Real love actually comes with time. Becasue reality comes in to play and life has it's ups and downs does not mean love is over.
Be thankful you have a good relationship - do something special and realize you need to be a grown up.
If you are talking about marriage, didn't you take vows - till death? Do your vows mean anything to you? Are you thinking about what leaving would do to other family members? You have to consider others - not just yourself!
2007-06-30 10:50:59 · answer #2 · answered by moonmother2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mara, There ya go! If you are not in love then get out. Better now than later.Love rarely ends but not being"in love" can be a painfull and agonizing existence. Been there done that !
2007-06-30 11:03:37 · answer #3 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are out of love with someone, it's kind of hard to find a reason to stay in the relationship, isn't it?
The hardest thing is just taking those first steps towards ending it and the fear of the unknown.........
But if your heart isn't in it anymore, then you need to go.
2007-06-30 10:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by Ella 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I asked myself the same question and my conclusion is if your with someone that you don't enjoy doing the stuff that y'all are use to doing spending those special moments then your relationship has ran it's course.
2007-06-30 11:45:02 · answer #5 · answered by heaven 07 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's time to let go whenever you have to ask yourself this question "when is love over"?
When you "are" loved, you will truly "feel" loved.
When you have to wonder or ask yourself if the love is still there, my bet would be "no".
2007-06-30 10:49:35 · answer #6 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would say when you and him don,t talk and you all ready tryed getting help and you two fight more then you suggle.
2007-06-30 11:00:16 · answer #7 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you expect fireworks all throughout the marriage ???? grow up
2007-06-30 10:45:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋