2007-06-30 08:48:40 · 13 answers · asked by Bunny Boiler 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
because it's familiar
and fear you'll never have it again
and hope you're wrong and it's not really over
and dreams of what might have been
2007-06-30 08:51:44 · answer #1 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with what mostly everyone else said. It is hard letting go because it's familiar....but try your best to just walk away. Allow the memories to play out in your mind...don't fight it because it's natural to think of someone...to miss someone you once cared about deeply. It's not easy...but, you'll only end up hurting more in the end. They'll end up leading you on if you continue to cling, and they won't even have the thought of getting back together in mind. Don't set yourself up for disappointment and more pain. You deserve so much more. So...miss them, but don't call them or contact them in anyway...be strong. Cry about it if you have to...but don't contact them. Sometimes love will allows us to lose our pride. Just view what you had with that person as an experience...but let go, and move on. You don't have to rush to find a "new one" so to speak. Take your time and heal. Go out, workout, be around friends, read a good book, take a walk...just stay busy. And when thoughts of that person enter your mind...let them come and go. Good luck. I understand where are you are, and believe me...you'll get through it. ;-)
2007-06-30 16:56:45 · answer #2 · answered by just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't cling, I just know what is supposed to be, he just needs to catch up
2007-06-30 15:51:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't cling.....I've only met one person that I could not walk away from and he's sitting right next to me!
2007-06-30 15:51:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because you're attached and clingin to hope. .. because you can only remember the good times and not what's really happenning...because you still think there's a chance it will all work out...because you don't want to believe that it's over.
2007-06-30 15:52:26 · answer #5 · answered by Absilicious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A need for security and an inability to visualize a different future.
2007-06-30 15:52:10 · answer #6 · answered by KatGuy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because my heart rarely follows reason..
Not to mention I'd rather hold on to the rail than plumet to my death.
2007-06-30 15:52:07 · answer #7 · answered by Matia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Habit.
2007-06-30 15:53:30 · answer #8 · answered by I am T-bag's b itch 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because of the pain of ending it is so great.
2007-06-30 15:51:35 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because I know I'm right and don't what to let go!!
2007-06-30 15:52:17 · answer #10 · answered by stoutunicorn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋