we've been best friends for 3 yrs & never got into a fight. about a week ago however i hacked into her myspace account. i commented [in a somewhat flirty way] on this boy's page whom SHE HATES & left him pictures comments [he had like zero] pretending I was her. i knew she was gonna find out but i thought she'd laugh about it in a "oh you got me" kinda way but instead she was mad. she said she hated me! & she called me a B%tch. she always does but for fun and this time i think she meant it. i didn't expect all that. i thought she'd say she was mad but HATE??? Also suprised shes mad over something like myspace. I told her I was sorry [over myspace] but i dont think she forgives me.Now all this week I've been having anxiety about if we ever make up. & I feel like my hearts been broken. yeah i should call her or come to her house but I feel like a mega jackass. "what if she doesnt wanna make up w/ me or what if she didn't even think about me all week? or what if she's happier without me?"
2007-06-30 06:13:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I even commented the boy she hates saying it WAS ME and not her but she was still mad.
2007-06-30 06:36:40 · update #1
just say im so sry i was meen and stupid i was trying to make u laugh i didnt meen to do all this i really want to be ur bff again i was so stupid i was more than stupid i was terrible plzz forgive me plzz i miss u in my life
hope this helps
2007-07-08 03:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by cathleen e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably as bad off as you. You should wait a while and let her cool off. Then, you should tell the boy that you sent the pictures and comments to that it was really you and not her and that it was just a joke. Then, tell your friend that you are really sorrry, it will never happen again, and that you told the boy that it wasn't her. Then, if she still says that she doesn't want to be your friend then there is nothing more you can do. I'm pretty sure that she will feel a lot better and you two will be good friends again, but you should try and wait about a week or maybe a little longer after this happened. You don't want to try and make up with her while she is still really mad, but you don't want to wait so long that she thinks that you don't care anymore and she gets used to living without you.
2007-06-30 13:31:50 · answer #2 · answered by Bobert R. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first mistake was abusing your friendship by hacking into her account. I am sure you would have reacted much the same if she had done that to you. That is the first rule of friendship...always put yourself in the other person's shoes. If you wouldn't like it...then don't freaking assume she will. Your second mistake is not apologizing for being so stupid in person where she can see your face and know that you are truly upset. Typed words mean nothing when you feel like your friendship has been violated. If she was really your bff you will know what to do to make her forgive you. Personally i think she really doesn't need a friend who would be such a jerk.
2007-06-30 13:24:15 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Instantkarma♥♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go see her. tell her how sorry you are. She may not believe you, but it is worth the try. I just had a fight with one of my best friends, I mean he is like a brother to me. Well it wasn't really a fight. I pretended to be this girl he likes and she knew I was doing and said I could do it. But we had to tell when we were done. He was mad and sad, I felt just has bad has him! But we talked it out and now things are way better. But we talked it out. So I really think talking to her will help. Find out how she feels about it. Find out a way to make this up to her. So her that you value your friendship way to much to let it go down the drain over a thing like that. Don't give up! If you guys have been friends for 3 years I don't think she wants to give up you friendship either. And don't worry about being better off with out you. She probably feels misused.
2007-07-08 12:09:20 · answer #4 · answered by Basketballlover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
amm i think it was ur fault u shouldnt have done it and she really does sounds mad at u because she called u a b**** but i think it wasnt a thing that she should get so mad at u welli think u should tell her sorry again and again tell her that u are her bff and why is she getting mad at u just because of that "myspace" u've been bf for 3 years so tell her was it only a lie that she was ur bf because bf's dont get mad they forgive u my friends also usually do stupid things with me but i never get mad at them and now they never get mad at me too and i hope she wil understand what u really mean and what is a true friendship if u r a true friend u always forgive and u always should.
2007-07-07 11:54:20 · answer #5 · answered by Romaisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't sound like she's much fun.
By the way, have you thought about how this is impacting the guy? He thinks she's hot for him - and she really despises him. As a matter of courtesy, you need to call this guy up and ask him out. That's the only thing that is going to get your bff off of his mind.
2007-06-30 13:29:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hacking into someones myspace account, especially someone whos your BEST FRIEND, is horrible! And leaving messeges in their name is liek identity fraud! Id be mad if I were her too!
2007-07-08 12:52:09 · answer #7 · answered by music_is_life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has every right to be outraged and angry. Your actions betrayed her trust in you, her right to privacy, your entire friendship.
Sorry to be so tough when you are so upset - this is a very hard lesson to be learned and I don't know if she will ever forgive you.
2007-07-07 13:42:13 · answer #8 · answered by jbug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't pretend, to hack like that & be SOOO
innocent . You hurt her feelings.Give her time & space, to get over it. You have to understand that you invaded her privacy.
2007-07-08 03:46:30 · answer #9 · answered by Klingon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You trespassed by hacking. No wonder she's mad!
2007-07-07 12:08:09 · answer #10 · answered by Ophelia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋