I am close to 30s. I don't have friends to hang out or chat..Everybody is busy working or something..When you send an e-mail, you get a reply late or something... I can't trust everybody..I do not know what to do?
2007-06-30 05:41:08 · 11 answers · asked by Storm 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Thanks for your answers but l am in a small town with self centered people..People I know are very busy..I want some chat pals but I have trust issues..sorry..
2007-06-30 05:53:04 · update #1
Storm, your wise not to trust everybody. But it is always nice when you have a couple a people in your life that you can trust. At your age people are all getting into different things in their life's so that always makes for less interaction between people we once had close relationships with. Friends are getting into relationships, busy with their jobs and just overall finding other priorities. So what is happening in your life is very normal.
If you have any hobbies or are enjoy any sports then perhaps you should consider joining a club with people who share the same interests as you. This way you will meet new people and may even find some lifelong friends that you can share your life with. Good luck and try and have a healthier outlook on life as it's all too short.
2007-06-30 05:49:00 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Friends are real trust me... In my case, at first I also don't have friends because no one give me attention but. When I entered college. I found a group which have the same interest with me. After that I talk to them oftenly. Then we go to play outdoors like basket ball, tennis, etc. And also computer games.
For now you have to do is find someone which you can talk to then after you become close you will also meet some of his/her friends as you getting to know each other.
2007-06-30 12:47:02 · answer #2 · answered by frian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you can do several things. You could join some groups both online and real lifeyou are interested in, start going to social activities, be a friend to others. Sometimes there is that one person who goes and is on the fringe, doesn't seem as if he/she belong. Go talk to them, you just might find someone you like and respect.
2007-06-30 12:45:25 · answer #3 · answered by Cin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U have 2 seperate ur good friends from the 1's that r using u!!Mayb u and some friends could get 2gether and do something!Good luck
2007-06-30 12:46:40 · answer #4 · answered by daphne r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 13 and all of my friends hang out together and leave me out (and they try to keep it a secret, but I always find out). You just need to find new ones. Like, join a club or take a class (that interests), and you might find a friend...or two.
Trust me, on this one. You might find friends you can trust.
2007-06-30 12:58:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends are real but some come and go. Some may stay. Friends: you are to keep forever in your heart ....
Some friends may go and i know it really hurts but find ways to keep in touch with them
Never forget your friends cause they are always with you in your heart.
2007-06-30 12:48:49 · answer #6 · answered by * †♥Sasha† 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know,make some friends,Or do some dating.Not the best advise but try it.
2007-06-30 12:46:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart
2007-06-30 13:07:47 · answer #8 · answered by anonymous 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes friends are real it seems as if life got in the way of your friends. im sorry about that.. because friends are great
2007-06-30 12:45:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep doing what Ur doing.....keep getting what Ur getting!! Try changing....little steps or big.....what makes U feel good!!
2007-06-30 12:46:20 · answer #10 · answered by SuasGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋