ITS BEEN 3 WEEKS ALREADY!
should i call him to see if he died?
2007-06-30 05:36:10 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
Sounds like he took the decision you should have taken yourself.
2007-06-30 05:39:00 · answer #1 · answered by piggingheck 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Don't call. You are better off without this dude. He doesn't respect you. What you wanted was not as important to him as what he wanted, so he dropped you. That makes him a user and a loser. He was never interested in you as a person, only in what you could give him.
Three weeks have gone by and you have shown strength and maturity to refrain from calling him. Well done! Don't weaken now. Move on and look for someone more worthy of you. There are much better men out there. I'm sure you'll find one who will appreciate your admirable self-respect and emotional intelligence.
Good luck!
2007-06-30 13:05:10 · answer #2 · answered by Red Man Talking 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He wants someone to have sex with - you do not want to give him it.
He has said he is sick of this - and presumably is moving on to find someone who will have sex.
Call him if you want, but I suspect he has probably found someone else who "puts out".
Please do NOT think I am saying you should have agreed to sex if you didn't want it - not at all - what I AM saying is that it sounds as though HE wants a relationship with sex in from the start - and you do not. He has realised this - and presumably "as he was sick of not getting any" - has since moved on to someone with looser legs.
Call him if you want, but I suspect that even if he is single - unless you are ready for a pysical relationship, nothing is going to have changed much.
Mark
PS:
All these answers that assume the great moral tone - the questioner does not say that they just met last night and he wanted to bonk her - they might have been going out together for months and "still nothing".
Sure, some folks especially the bible thumpers want to make sure that the first time you find out you are not sexually compatible is AFTER you are married - so you can have a really screwed up life - OTHER people however like to have a little fun along the way - and make sure that the person they want to get together with is someone who is going to nejoy sex with them too.
As for the pillock who assumes that anyone who has sex will "die of AIDS" desperately needs to get a life and to work out a little about safer sex. It is safer to bonk 20 people using a condom than to have a single hump with someone unsafely.
All this "he was obviously trying to use you" crap - what is that about? He enjoys sex - she doesn't. That isn't about "using people" - she didn't say "that is the only thing he ever talks about". you could (equally wrongly) say SHE was using him - just as an emotional crutch with no itention of being lovingly physical - just someone to keep her company for her own selfish needs. ALSO WRONG. Point being: Wanting to have sex with someone does not mean you want to "use them" - it means you enjoy sex and would like to share it with someone you are going out with?!
The guy has perhas been patient - AND not tried to force the issue - she says "no" once again - and he finally walks away, what is the problem with that? Should hs stop asking and just go out with someone who doesn't satisfy his needs?
it is all well and good talking about HER needs - but oddly enough the guys have needs in relationships too - if the two are not compatible, it isn't ANYOINE'S fault - they just need to find more compatible partners.
He needs to find a lass who is up for a little more fun in the short term - and she needs to find a lad who would rather not have sex other than when it is bioligically required for producing the next generation.
Mark
2007-06-30 12:41:55 · answer #3 · answered by Mark T 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
If you don't want to have sex or at least not with him and you said NO. And he's stopped calling? All I can say is do not call him for any reason!!!!
Let him find someone who is easy because you have principles and should stand by them!!
2007-06-30 12:46:59 · answer #4 · answered by LJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy doesn't really care about you, sounds like he is just looking to get laid. And most likely he's not going to call that much if you give it to him anyway...'cept maybe for a booty call once in a while.
2007-06-30 12:43:21 · answer #5 · answered by opctrs 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No don't you dare call him. Can't you see that this guy only wants one thing from you and it ain't a commitment? If you sleep with him, he will have gotten what he wants and will be gone in no time anyway. Judge the person you are dating by how well he treats YOU, NOT what he WANTS from you.
2007-06-30 12:41:45 · answer #6 · answered by Mamapie2u 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
He hasn't died, unless it was from exhaustion.
Look, the guy obviously wants sex. If you don't, then you shouldn't call him because that seems to be a big deal to him.
Find a guy who can respect your wishes and admire your purity.
2007-06-30 12:40:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
I think you should give up on the awaited phone call. He is out to get some, and you aren't delivering. Guys are like that. Be smart and stay safe.
2007-06-30 12:40:20 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Instantkarma♥♫ 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You're not on the same page. You should go find someone else.
Why is this a political question?
2007-06-30 12:44:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he was only interested in sex. Unless you're ready to give it up to him, don't call.
2007-06-30 12:38:45 · answer #10 · answered by ☆Bombastic☆ 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋