Im questioned to why people are mean to me.
2007-06-30 05:19:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Visual Arts ➔ Other - Visual Arts
People do it for many reason. Some do it to make them feel special. But they are just insecure. Others do think of others feelings. Some are just stupid. Many kids in school do it because they feel they have to or they will be the one picked on.
I am dyslexic and I was made fun of because of not able to read like the others or always making mistakes. the funny thing is I have a higher IQ then 95% of the ones that made fun of my. I never had a best friend because my best friend in 1 through 6 grade ended up making fun of me because of my dyslexia.
All I can tell you is dont let them get to you. Most famous people were made fun of. Because they are deferent. Beleave in you and you will be fine. The others are clueless people that will one day wish they been your friend because you will be famous. Keep the faith.
2007-06-30 08:21:20 · answer #1 · answered by videoman 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You are probably not using your intuition, but are so close. Also the pace of life is stepping up and stress levels are high leading to things like Columbine and Virginia Tech. Also you are probably using judgment words about people, at least in your mind. They sense that. The mind will even come back and bite you as it will judge you back. It's not that people aren't wrong a lot of the time, it's just that they don't know any better and you have to forgive them and yourself, not just yourself, as we all have a lot of hate and other diseases exuding out, you probably show it too. And Negativity is a real turn off. Find something positive in every person or situation to focus on. You can't think of two things at once if your focused. Look up emotional intelligence and intuition. There, that should make you more popular than anyone has a right to be. Anyone who is mean almost always has some real problem in their life they can't handle or have learned some very bad habits, likely from parents. Feel sorry for them if that's all the love you can muster up. It's quite enough. The pain you feel is there pain. obviously since you didn't have it before. It's catchy like an emotional virus. Usually you catch it and become like them, soft on the inside and hard on the outside.
2007-06-30 12:33:30 · answer #2 · answered by hb12 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not mean to emo people, UNLESS they are the actual stereotype. Super uber tight pants (I don't wanna see guys junk, honestly), Always the same hair, trying too hard, not unique.
Yeah.
I know a couple though, who are in fact pretty decent people, and can be unique and hang out with others who don't look exactly like them on a regular basis. Those people are cool.
2007-06-30 16:02:07 · answer #3 · answered by Megatopsy 2 · 4⤊ 3⤋
What you may precieve as "mean" may be Tough love. Also, some people grow impatient with you for what they see as a purely personal problem that you are not dealing with. Your emotions are yours and only you can control them. It sounds like it is past time to develop a thick skin.
2007-06-30 12:31:54 · answer #4 · answered by Sophist 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Your not unique. There are lots of people like you. No one is different enough to be considered unique.
EMO people think they are unique, and special, and the target of unwarranted cruelty, because they dont have the social ability to understand life sucks. For everyone. Most people grow up, learn to grow a thick skin, and go on with there lives.
Time to grow up. See the world for what it is.
2007-06-30 16:12:37 · answer #5 · answered by photoguy_ryan 6 · 6⤊ 4⤋
Because you're not unique...in your quest to be different from the norm of society, you all end up looking exactly the same, thus becoming just another group, like jocks or whatever. Why do people laugh at them?The same reason...they're probably uncomfortable in their own skin, so they try way way way too hard to look and act like their peers. Overall, you try too hard.
2007-06-30 15:22:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 3⤋
People are afraid of people they don't understand..so they try to be mean first because they are scared, they think that they might get hurt first.
2007-06-30 13:10:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
You are not unique.
Also its a cruel, mean world.
You should learn these things quickly so that you may adapt and overcome.
2007-06-30 12:31:23 · answer #8 · answered by JFas 2 · 8⤊ 2⤋
'cause this world is full of mean and ignorant people!!!!!
some people are mean to me 'cause i'm goth and everyone even my friends say i'm very strange!!!!!
2007-06-30 21:00:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋