does he want to have sex again? Shouldn't once be enough to prove that you love him? Why does he want it again every day? Is it insecurity?
[thanks for inspiration, small:)]
2007-06-30 02:21:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Is it not good enough to just genuinely love someone..... why is it necessary to repeatedly say "I love you!"?
Does love suffer from perennial insecurity that it needs verbal reassurance every other day?
(question posted by small)
2007-06-30 06:19:56 · update #1
Sex isn't something you do once, and consider it done, like painting the garage. Being intimate is a daily need for most people.
2007-06-30 03:42:32 · answer #1 · answered by Derail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typically, in the beginning of relationships, people have sex alot (at least every day). It's a symbol of deep attraction and it should be flattering, not annoying. I don't know your ages, but if he is in his late teens or early twenties, he also has a strong natural sex drive and that is a hard thing to fight, particularly if you signaled you were ready by having sex with him the first time. If you weren't ready to dive into a sex life, you should have waited. On the other side of things, if you are really uncomfortable with it, you should explain it to him. A real loving relationship involves lots of communication and understanding. If you are honest with him, he should try to either make it more enjoyable for you or stop for a while until you figure out why it is bothering you.
2007-06-30 02:53:38 · answer #2 · answered by PixdeeArtist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex with someone is NOT proof of love for them...typically guys use the term "love" to get what they really want -- sex.
2007-06-30 03:02:28 · answer #3 · answered by SweetPandemonium 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll have better success if you approach the issue of your lack of interest in sex, or lack of interest in sex with him.
2007-06-30 02:31:06 · answer #4 · answered by guru 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋