does anyone ever feel like no matter where you go, what you try to do, change yourself/change the world, never changes?
Like your doomed to live this out and no matter what you try to do to change this course in life, it doesn't. You'll always be known as the "lone wolf" or "loner". Never get the girl, never get the job, never get out of your own head, never make better friends, never get away from all the dark things that make you miserable and lonely. I don't know. I'm just asking. Feel free to do as you please....
2007-06-30 00:20:43 · 11 answers · asked by 3018 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
A personal hell is a result of how we think about the world. The loner sabotages their attempts in many cases. It is a conflict to be with others and to be alone. Loners tend to think a lot. It's the price anyone pays for excessive thinking.
2007-06-30 01:18:16 · answer #1 · answered by guru 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you don't know; if you did, you wouldn't ask the question. And you are right. Nothing does change. You can call it hell if you'd like, "feel free to do as you please" as you say. But no two leaves are exactly the same, no two points in a river, no two cakes. So, if you changed something, would that help with changing the whole thing. And if you could change the whole thing, what the hell would you do then, probably not what you're doing now. So, yes, I am living my own personal hell, but this hell of mine won't be truly experienced by me or by anybody.
I got the girl, but nothing came out of it. I got out of my own head, same thing. I've made better friends and have gotten out of my head, same ending there. But what the hell do you want? And what are you doing to get what you want? You are doing a damn thing, except ask a question on Yahoo answers. And me? I'm answering. And if there is a specific message you want take from this text, let me put it like this: what is this hell you are speaking of? I don't see it. I'm not saying life is a ******' lovely park, or that its even a neutral blazay 'what have you.' So... where do you go? What do you do, now?
2007-06-30 00:36:22 · answer #2 · answered by The Witten 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your question is so deep and dark. Only a lucky few have never felt what you are feeling. My life has gone through so many cycles. At times I was my worse enemy. I have always tried to use humor to try to lighten myself up. I am 42 and I have seen bad times actually turn around. I sincerely wish good for you. You will recognize and appreciate the change that some take for granted.
2007-06-30 00:43:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Everyday I live it. I believe that Hell is Earth and only hope there's better after it. I've lost my son the night before his first birthday, my daughter looks exactly like him so everyday only gets harder and harder. It took me a few yrs to get my nursing license b/c I'm a single mom. Just when I start thinking my life is on track and things are going good, I permanantly disabled my hand, leaving me to loose my nursing license and be disabled. Sooooo...My advice to how to get through this hell is to try and convince yourself that there's always someone out there worse off than you. Like I sd sometime the key word is convince yourself!! Good luck w/life and hopefully your hell will get better to some degree!!
2007-06-30 00:33:22 · answer #4 · answered by Baker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I live in my own personal Hell every second of my miserable life. I don t remember ever being Ok. There is Always something making my life a Living Hell. Now I have a daughter, who is disabled, but I think She is the Devil himself. She is so Cute and beautiful, but even being a disabled and developmentally delayed child; She finds ways to make my life a Living Hell every second that I am breathing. And that is Not even Counting All the Other Stuff I have to deal with on a daily basis. I think DEATH is the Solution to This Miserable Life.
2016-06-28 09:34:45 · answer #5 · answered by Avatar26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are currently over 6.5 Billion people living in their own personal hells, as well as the hells created by all the others. Okay, well perhaps minus Buddhist monks and nuns!
2007-06-30 02:42:42 · answer #6 · answered by Cognitive Dissident ÜberGadfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to but after some rigorous learning I'm all better now. Well, I'm yet to see if I'm ALL better but I've never felt better. Hopefully I've learnt enough to make it last.
2007-06-30 01:14:53 · answer #7 · answered by q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I try to change the world and be effective in this world, although it's difficult.
2007-06-30 00:36:58 · answer #8 · answered by Peace-seeker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone does but in different degrees. It disappears when we reach for each other. Sappy, but it works.
2007-06-30 00:30:22 · answer #9 · answered by Fred 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, but I don't appreciate that you just moved into mine.
It's crowded in here now.
2007-06-30 00:28:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋