A bunch of things that happend
-She would be talking to me and them 1 ov her other friends would talk 2 her and shed drop me and go talk 2 them
-even when we were younger shed sit with me at lunch but get up and leave 4 the whol period 2 talk 2 other friends
-Shes lies about everything, evenwhen i know she lies and i tell her this she still lies straight to my face
-she is begining to be a drug adict and a huge slut
-shed b my BFF and then abandom me wen she met a guy or a different friend always but come back wen then left her and was all of asuden my BFF again
-Shes wiked obsesed with ppl who treat her lik **** but ignores ppl who luv her
-she can say i love u 2 NE1
-mesed up my relationship with sum1 in my famly
-i talk 2 her and tell her wat she does all the time but she still says that she dont kno y im mad at her
-she blames me 4 wen eva sumthin is wrong between us and i always take that blame
-i worry about herallways
-she abandons me 4 ppl she knows 4 a short time
2007-06-30 00:14:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
-i always think about her now that i told her i couldnt b her friend anymore cuz she wasnt always this way and we wer frienz 4 such a long time
-1 time i asked her if she wanted chill but she said she had 2 go over her dads house wen really she was going with her friends
2007-06-30 00:15:58 · update #1
-i slept over hr house and went 2 take a shower and wen i was in the bathroom and she though i couldnt her her, she called 1 of her friends and they asked her if she wanted 2 hang that day and even though i was there she said yes, and wen i got out i got ready 2 go home so that she wouldnt hav 2 lie about it 2 me but she still did anyway and saif he had 2 go 2 the mall wit her mom 2 watc her lil bro
2007-06-30 00:18:33 · update #2
she can tell everyone else everything but not me
2007-06-30 00:19:21 · update #3
i dont kno y but every time i see anything i think about her. Yesterday i saw a camera and rembered a trip 2 florida we went on and took funny pics.
i care about her so much
- she says that she tries not 2 lie and 2 b beter but it rely shouldnt be that hard 2 do it should com naturally.
-i gave her about 400000 second chances
-she used 2 b so caring and if i cried she wuldnt leave my sid until he knew what was wrong and now she just dont care and doesnt cry or get upset when she knows that sumthins obviously wrong and wen i try and talk about it she blocks me out
2007-06-30 00:23:01 · update #4
we used 2 spend everyday 2 gether and over night she met a guy and new friends and completly abondened me
- she said that she thought nothing was wrong and that she didnt no y i was mad, but how can u think nothing is wrong wen youv done all this.
-if something was wrong with me then she used 2 be right by my side and she ued 2 call everynight, now she never calls and she dont care if im upset
-all sshe cares about is her other friends and she thinks a guy will make her happy but all the guys want is her body and the ppl she thinks are friends talk behind her bac and only hang around her cuz she gets a lot of guys
2007-06-30 00:27:08 · update #5
now that im not her friend anymore i think about her all the time and it herts, but she could care less.
if she hangs out with other ppl she thinks its perfectly fine but wen i hang out with other ppl shell say tht were drifting aart and that she dont wanna lose me
2007-06-30 00:29:04 · update #6
-i have other friends but theyre just not the same
-even wen she said we were best friends i would always be the last in her mind and every1 else came 1st
2007-06-30 00:30:28 · update #7
-she does this alll the time and i always take it but for some reasin i just couldnt take it any longer and now i regret hanging outwith her
-the pple who r her friends make rumors about her screwin a bunch of ppl and doing a bunch of **** and they call her a slut and even thoug im mad at her i still wanna kick their asses
-and for some reasonn i cnt stop living in the past and i regret not wanting 2 b her friend but its like she didnt care anymore and shes a completl different person.why is this bothering me so much!
2007-06-30 00:34:25 · update #8
You can either drop her completely, or you can let her back into your life as a friend, but definitely not your best. A good friend will never treat you like she does. If it hurts too much to have her completely cut off (because of your long history as friends) then keep her as a friend, by all means. But you have to accept all of her flaws and understand what that means to your friendship with her.
She sounds like she's a sometimes friend, so fine. Have fun with her sometimes. But know that it's only going to be sometimes, and don't let her walk all over you.
Most importantly: try to make new friends who respect you and treat you well. It can be hard at first to create the same bond, because that takes time, but in the long run, time invested in new friends who care about you as much as you care about them will be much more worthwhile.
2007-07-08 00:04:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend kinda like that. Shes still my bestfriend, and on of the loves of my life. I love her deeply, but shes very consided and has ditched me many a times for guys who only wanna have sex with her and get her high. She even lives in a group home, because she attacked her mother.
think you should be friends with her, but not make her such a high priorety. Enjoy the time you spend with her, but id suggest continuing to be her friend, but continue living. I miss my friend everyday, but i dont let that block e from the future.
I sugest you try the same
2007-07-07 22:11:57 · answer #2 · answered by Crayon_Freak 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you have taken so much of her c***!!!
You should move on, I mean if she can't realize how valuable your friendship is then that's her problem. I think you have done more than enough to try to save you relationship with her.
Don't keep thinking about it because then you will drown in problems that you have absolutely no control over and no responsibility for. Even if she has been your friend for many years, you can't keep letting her use you and be your friend only when she feels like it. Honestly, let her screw her life if she wants to and won't listen to you.
2007-07-07 15:59:55 · answer #3 · answered by Peaches 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG! i can't believe what she's done to u!!! she is such a ******' asshole!!! u can't b friends with her!! u should hurt her or do the same thing she does to you so she knows what it feels like!!!u should confront her and tell her what u wrote here(but don't tell her the parts that u miss her and u love her etc...)
2007-07-07 22:40:20 · answer #4 · answered by Alice :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't save everybody. If you keep trying to save her, she's going to end up pulling you down with her. You can only live for yourself.
Let her go, maybe she'll learn who her real friends are 1 day.
2007-06-30 01:45:41 · answer #5 · answered by coolbreez_318 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on. You're a rescuer, and she's got low self-esteem.
It's called co-dependency. Read some books on it.
2007-06-30 00:18:08 · answer #6 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
heres the thing everyone deserves second chances and if you feel its right to give her that chance than go for it but if you dont then well accept your decision.
2007-07-07 19:20:52 · answer #7 · answered by greatsayaman007 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave her and show her how it feels to be left out and go find friends that care
2007-07-07 13:08:36 · answer #8 · answered by VLR 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on. You will ONLY get hurt if you go back to her as a friend.She's NOT WORTH IT.
2007-07-07 11:33:45 · answer #9 · answered by Klingon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
unless you can accept that you are not her only friend leave things the way they are
2007-07-07 23:03:50 · answer #10 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋