I got pregnant. We r both minors and still live with our parents not to mention 600 miles apart. HELP!
2007-06-29 21:44:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If you are both minors then, no you should not move in together. You should let your parents know the situation and keep in touch a lot. After you have your baby, take care of yourself and stay in school. When you two are able and ready to move in together, when your a bit older then you can get married or move in together. Just make sure the baby's needs come first. If your not going to stay together, then just make sure to keep in touch, and don't forget the child support.
2007-06-29 21:58:38 · answer #1 · answered by ░▒▓► Aqua Fires 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
OK, first you need to tell him, if you haven't already. Just call him up and say it.
Second, tell your parents. There's nothing else you can do about it -- you MUST get through school somehow if you hope to provide a decent life for your baby.
You said in your other post that you are one month pregnant; sometimes miscarriages happen, sometimes they don't. You need to see a baby doctor (an obstretician) as soon as possible. S/he can tell you about the options available to you, health-wise. If you are going to carry the baby to term, you'll have to take extra-good care of your health, because you are still growing, too. If you choose an abortion, you still need to find a doctor.
Talk with your parents. They may have some good ideas. I think every girl who has had pre-marital sex has wondered what they would do if they got pregnant. I am willing to bet your mother may have had some thoughts, too.
Those are the first steps -- after that, your parents and your doctor should be able to help you figure things out -- how to deal with the 600-mile-away father and his family, what to do about the baby, and how to get through the pregnancy.
Good luck.
2007-06-29 22:08:27 · answer #2 · answered by Madame M 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey don't listen to some of the mean comments you recieved. The truth is that you really shouldn't have gotten intimate at such a young age but since you did it's already too late to regret it. The one thing you can do is tell your parents and if you are not against abortions you should get one. Remember keeping the baby is a big responsibility so even if you don't get an abortion you should consider giving the baby away to foster parents because they can give the child all the things that you will definetly not be able to give. THE FIRST thing you should do is tell your parents... they will be mad but ur still their daughter and they will get over it.. it's going to be a hard time for you so you could use their support. NEXT time don't get intimate until you are sure that you are responsible enough to face the consequenses of your actions.
2007-06-29 22:00:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well lets see, I am in Arizona and the father of my baby is in Florida..You are so blessed to have your parents taking care of you I am 28 and had to move home...This is something you should have thought about a little more carefully before you decided to have sex...ironically that may not have helped anyway...we wanted to get pregnant and then he decided oops I'm not ready to be a dad...So you know what you do..You hold your head up high, and you get through it and you be the best darn mother you can be...You can seek his assistance, or not..remember if you go after him for child support that entitles him to possibly come and get the baby and bring it to his neck of the woods for a visit..I am not saying to deprive the baby of its father...but if he doesn't want to actively be involved then don't make him be...I am going thought this now...one minute he wants to be part of her life the next he doesn't....I am doing it on my own and whatever he decides so be it..If he chooses not to it is his loss...if he decides to be a part, then he will be lucky to know my daughter...Keep your head up and keep the communication with your parents open...they are really going to be a valuable asset to you...love them and appreciate them because you are about to become them. Good Luck....You CAN do this!!!
2007-06-29 22:14:16 · answer #4 · answered by Nicole B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
either you go live with him or he come live with you! if that doesnt happen KEEP IN CONTACT always call each other daily! or write letters or e-mail! then when the baby is born let the baby visit as often! BUT TELL YOUR PARENTS THEY MIGHT BE ABLE TO HELP!
2007-06-29 21:51:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
let me see, tell him your pregnant.
1 option is to get married make a stable home for the child and both of you finish school as quickly as possible and get jobs.
2 option is to give the child up to a two parent home to be raised and move on with you life, and keep your legs closed untill you are married.
2007-06-29 21:49:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Grow up! You got yourself pregnant, so live with it! Fess up to your parents, get an abortion, and behave responsibly in future.
2007-06-29 21:49:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
ask him to take you living with him, coz you really need him
2007-06-29 21:48:55 · answer #8 · answered by ♥wildflower♥ 5 · 2⤊ 4⤋