I lost my dad in June and we buried him on my son's first birthday.
I lost my baby boy in the month of June.
I lost my baby daughter in the month of June.
Last year on my birthday, June 24th I got the call my mom was dying, I rushed to the hospital and held her all day long in her bed while she was dying, for four days I held her until she opened her eyes and looked at me and let out her final breath.
The entire month of June now I walk around like I don't exist and memories flood my mind with such pain it is unbearable at times.
June for me is the worst month for me to get through. Was wondering if anyone else has had soooooo much pain happen in one month
2007-06-29 21:31:42 · 10 answers · asked by Magical 4 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
My husband died this last December and he died 3 days before his birthday, also in December. From now on that will be a hard month to deal with.
You've had so much loss. I'm so sorry. I know it's hard to cope sometimes.
While writing this I'm thinking that in December I'll try and help someone out. Maybe someone that is sick in the hospital or someone sick at home. Visit and talk with them.
I think that would make me feel better.
I wish you well.
2007-06-29 21:40:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear about your devestating losses. Life can certainly be cruel, can't it?
June is brutal. One of my best friends died in June last year. & last week was pretty brutal for me this year...more loss...
I always find December hard too. Something about Christmas and the end of the year is melancholy...
Sometimes it's hard to get through. Sometimes you wonder how you'll survive or whether you even want to when life breaks your heart. But somehow you muddle through. Somehow you wake up & you get on with your life & eventually you regain your ability to smile sometimes & laugh & see life as beautiful...
At least June is over today & hopefully better days ahead for you...
Take care.
2007-06-30 06:39:00 · answer #2 · answered by amp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bless you, sweetheart, and your sweet little angels. My husband says that before a baby learns to talk, she still speak babble and that is the language of the angels. It only sounds like babble to us because we are not fresh from God. He says that every night, babies go and play with the angels and tell them all their adventures and the angels give them all their instructions. Every night he lays our little one in her bed, he tells her to go have fun and play with the angels. Tonight, I will tell her to go look for your little angels and play with them.
February used to be the month that knocked the wind out of me. But as time went on, I found things that made me happy, things that I enjoyed and one day, I realized I was about two weeks into February and I had forgotten to be sad about all the bad things. I never forgot them, I just didn't count the days til I was sad again. It took a long time. A lot of years. A lot of friends have come and gone. You have certainly been through so much. But hopefully, someday, you will reach a different place in your life. Maybe a place where you can remember them and smile, instead of weep. I'll say a prayer for you.
2007-06-30 04:50:07 · answer #3 · answered by Polly's Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry you lost all of your love ones in one month but being in the outside looking in and having lossed a love one you have to see it as Gods work he is really working hard and will be until the end of time you have angels looking over your shoulders and under your footsteps you take trust me your family is and will be proud of you cause you have the heart to move on even though it's hard to do so do it anyway hey, and if aint anybody else didnt tell you im proud of you and appoligize that you lost your peoples. But god has your back for show..... God Bless You love one.....
2007-06-30 04:41:57 · answer #4 · answered by lamont n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
December Is mine
I lost my uncle, and 2 cousins in december and I almost lost my bestfriend in a terrible car accident
So in december i walk around like i dont exist even on christmas because i lost my uncle on that day...i just lay in bed and grieve it has been like that for 2 years now..
2007-06-30 04:38:29 · answer #5 · answered by Sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thinking about the traumas of our life only cements those terrible events even deeper into the memory. Thinking about those who we have lost only intensifies the pain.
2007-06-30 08:33:35 · answer #6 · answered by guru 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May. I will send you a good dream for the end of June. Blesses to you.
2007-06-30 04:38:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are not given more than we can handle. Remember those loved ones with joy, not the sadness you feel for losing them. I pray that you find peace within your heart and that you may feel comforted by just knowing them. Although I would not want to die before my mother, I do not want her to die first either.
Nature is not cruel, it is nature.
2007-06-30 20:36:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i m so sorry.
at least it's just one month out of 12,
there are at least 3 out of 12 months for me.
well, "tomorrow is another day", it'll be the month of July. Be strong!
2007-06-30 04:37:07 · answer #9 · answered by thuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad you reached out on this last day of sorrows, you are in our thoughts, always.
gamerunner2001
2007-06-30 07:22:20 · answer #10 · answered by gamerunner2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋