i am 13 and his 15 and i am going to be 14 soon..=D well i really like him every time i try to talk to him he talks to me but some days he doesnt text back and for like 3-4 days we dont talk until i say hi or sumthing... i feel like he wants me to chase him and be all over him but i dont want that i really want this to work but my cuzin says i could find a better guy becuz gurls dont chase guys... guys came to gurls so please help me should i still like him or move on i liked him a long time! then he liked my best friend then me and i like him back but some times he askes me do i like him i dont know wat to say becuz i dont know if i do!
2007-06-29 20:18:20 · 11 answers · asked by TanyaB 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Both of you are too young and are passing through a phase of life. There is is nothing unnatural or uncommon in the way of behaviour of you both.His standing on formalities. His flirting with your friend and then asking you in the same breath if you care for him.It is quite possible that this going with a girl other than you was a ruse to brd ing you out. Consult yourself and if you find you care for him go ahead and kiss him.
2007-06-29 20:52:04 · answer #1 · answered by Prabhakar G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These days guys are screwed up. Guys have such high expectations for beauty and hotness in a girl that they are never met (cuz of porn and all the surgery becoming more and more common and yet ugly guys expect hot girls - ugh!)which makes girls have to chase guys but seriously you are 13-14. He is like a year older - big deal. You arent going to get married or anything so just tell him you really like him and ask him out and he better not hit on your friend again and if he doesnt want to date you or doesnt like you then oh well! Confidence girl! Just be confident, it will be a priding experience either way.
2007-06-29 20:27:04 · answer #2 · answered by peachpup 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't chase him!!!!! It makes you look desperate. I agree with your cousin...guys like the chase and they should be chasing YOU because you are worth it! If he doesn't talk to you until you talk to him, then he's "just not that into you." Move on and find someone who wants to be with you.
2007-06-29 21:20:20 · answer #3 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh girld do so chase guys!! Not txtn bak for days is a male thing and somethingn that can even continue when you go out with them. If ur not sure if you like him yet give it some time - but you said 3 times in ur q that you do so my guess is that you do like him.
Take Care
:D
2007-06-29 20:23:41 · answer #4 · answered by Stellz48 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
One year difference doesn't make him an 'older' guy, unless it was a typing mistake and he's really 51. I guess it's okay to let him know that you like him, but not desperately so. Don't fall over him or he might take you for granted.
2007-06-29 20:34:54 · answer #5 · answered by ©act⊍⊍a® 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. (the girls don't chase guys thing is from the dark ages! They do now)
2007-06-30 04:27:15 · answer #6 · answered by catsmeowjrk2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is common questions,any boys or girls will have the same feelings about getting partners who are above their own age.
2007-06-29 20:24:41 · answer #7 · answered by mwsaini 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
never chase a man, never, they arent worth it anyway.
2007-06-29 21:36:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone
2007-06-29 21:01:18 · answer #9 · answered by ~~~~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh please I thought you were gonna say something like you are 16 and he is 43.
2007-06-29 20:22:11 · answer #10 · answered by Betrayed and Insane 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋