She wash After Sex?

Question

Been marry for a long time now i really really want a baby but anytime i have sex with my wife she goes to the bath room and wash her Genital which takes her about ten minutes any time i ask she would say she is keeping her Genitals clean but i have this feelings that she is washing away my sperm so i would like to know if this is normal for women or it is just me.Please help

Answer 1

this is normal thing washing after sex. i think this is best way to keep body clean. she is doing this thing only for you. because when you will have sex next time she will offer you a fresh body if you like kiss her down there atleast that place would be clean good for you. stop doing suspection on your wife you should trust on her.give her lost of love then you will see you will be a father soon.
good luck and good bless you.

Answer 2

talk to her, tell her you want a baby, and ask her if she's ready. It is however normal for a woman to want to clean up after sex, we are highly succeceptable to infection.but a woman who really wants a child won't wash herself right away because the sperm will leak out. If she actually does want a child make sure she lies flat or with her legs and hips in the air for at least 20 mins to aid the sperms journey. but if she isn't ready let her know that it's okay for her to tell you so, ask her why and try to work it out, maybe she has a good reason.

btw the chance of conceiving even with 2 perfectly normal people is small like 30%, and conception can only happen when she is ovulating which is only about 1-2 days a month, basically conception is luck. also sperm does not enter the uterus right away, they have a long way to travel, and most don't make it even close to the egg. there is a lot of info on the internet about conception, google it if you're both ready for some usefull tips. I know because it took me about 6 months to get pregnant

Answer 3

I always wash afterwards and go to the bathroom. Its pretty normal. She cant possibly wash out your sperm as its shot up so hard and fast she wouldnt be able to get into the areas don't worry.

Ps. If your so worried she doesnt want a baby with you and that she is doing this intentionally maybe you should hold off on having a baby and work out your trust issues.

Good luck

Answer 4

Washing after sex will not prevent pregnancy. Upon male ejaculation, the sperm travel directly into the uterus and washing will not effect that. A lot of people wash after sex simply because of the sticky body fluids left behind, including her own. If it offends you, it really shouldn't but let her know how you feel. But again, simply washing up won't prevent a pregnancy.

Answer 5

Okay dont freak out about this if you had complete unprotected intercourse there is no way she could wash out your sperm, your sperm is already doing its thing. She like many woman may want to just be clean.

Answer 6

In my opinion yes. It is a dirty feeling after sex being sticky and smelly. I dint think she can wash away any sperm that had entered her body, reason being that the only way is with douche which can be very dangerous.

Answer 7

Well you need to ask your wife if she wants a baby at all, maybe she does not want one? Its better to rest a few minutes after intercourse before washing this might enable pregnancy. I think you need to talk about having babies first of all, then you might convince her to lay besides you for 10 minutes and then go wash. Most women like to wash after sex.

Answer 8

That won't wash away sperm. She is just trying to prevent a UTI.

Answer 9

i'm pretty sure she cant wash out your sperm unless you're super small. the sperm swims while in the uterus. she can't reach that far up to flush out your semen...

Answer 10

its normal, it only takes one little swimmer to get u a child, would u wanna walk around with with "juices" coming out of ur vagina? i dont think so plus it makes a girl smell down there! just make sure she's not using duche cuz that will kill the sperm!!!