Most will be straight, I have nothing against alternative lifestyles, but this friend, like many who pursue gay/lesbian lifestyle, is very open, frankly annoyingly so in mixed company. I want to be fair, but afraid she will spoil things for me. She is also known to make advances to other women.
2007-06-29 14:06:56 · 12 answers · asked by paanbahar 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
With consideration for the other guests, it might be an idea not to invite your friend. If she is so up front, then there could be trouble.
If you do ask her, how about inviting me as well. I have coped with odd types for over 42 years (my late partner's in-laws).I could take her under my wing.
Rose P.
2007-06-29 14:43:42 · answer #1 · answered by rose p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So she's a jerk. I wouldn't invite her. But, her annoying openess could be a way to let people know she "doesn't care" if people dislike her preferences. But, often times it's just a front to put up so that people will be too intimidated or pissed to make fun. She needs to find comfort in herself before others can be comfortable with her. Again, I wouldn't invite her. And if she asked, I'd calmly explain that she isn't very good in mixed company, and that if she were straight and behaved the same way, she wouldn't be invited.
2007-06-30 00:36:37 · answer #2 · answered by pjonkml 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, don't even call it a party unless you have a flaming gay boy or bulldozer dyke!
And by the way... we don't "pursue gay/lesbian lifestyles" anymore than we pursue being left or right handed. We are not alternative lifestyles. These are our lives. Don't leave your lesbian friend out just because she dykes it up. If you can't accept her for who she is, tell her that you are a low life that judges and condemns others and cannot accept others for who they are without getting embarrassed - then you won't have to worry about inviting her (and no one of any worth would want to go either).
Oh, and be sure to ask all your breeder friends not to flirt or have a good time or do anything that you don't want your lesbian "friend" to do.
-Rev. Jim Cunningham
GayChristianSurvivors.com
2007-06-29 21:21:17 · answer #3 · answered by kjv_gods_word 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
It'll be fun, just go ahead and invite her. You know you want to lol. Maybe she'll lively up the party a little so everyone could have a great time! :)
2007-06-29 21:45:31 · answer #4 · answered by Cricket 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite her but ask her very sincerely to please not hit on any one else as it could make the others uncomfortable and possibly ruin the atmosphere of the party. Also try showing her this page. It might help her to understand that you're not trying to pick on her but rather you're merely concerned.
2007-06-29 21:11:29 · answer #5 · answered by Diavola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite her, but make sure you ask her to behave herself and if she doesn't ask her to leave. It is your party after all. If she's a true friend she's keep herself in check.
2007-06-29 23:03:05 · answer #6 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that is a reason not to invite her but when your telling her about the party tell her there's going to be a mixed
crowd.
good luck :)
2007-06-29 22:34:29 · answer #7 · answered by kay b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite her anyway. It would be fun to see the reaction of those women...but you might want to let your friends know in advance that she is coming.... so they are not taken off guard.lol.
Of course all the guys will just love it.
2007-06-29 21:12:41 · answer #8 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Remind her that your friends are straight but otherwise let her be herself.
2007-06-29 21:31:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to keep it in her pants. If she can't do that for you then she clearly does not respect you.
2007-06-29 21:10:22 · answer #10 · answered by cailano 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋