omg help now!?

Question

MY MOM AND DAD ARE DIVORCED. MY MOM HAS A BOYFRIEND. THEY HAVE SEX ALOT. MY MOM HAS HIM OVER TWICE A WEEK. IM 15 AND I ALWAYS WAKE UP BECAUSE THEY ARE TOO LOUD. WHAT SHOULD I DO? IT GROSSES ME OUT. THE BED BANGS AND MOANING! ITS SICK! WHAT SHOULD I DO?

Answer 1

Tell your mom. Chances are it will embarrase her that you hear her getting off and she'll be more suddle about it.

You still need to talk to your mom about stuff like that and things in general.

Answer 2

1) Think yourself lucky - Twice a week isn't "a lot", especially in a new relationship!

2) Seriously - Have a quiet word with mum when he's not around. Bear in mind she's entitled to have relationships, don't throw your dummy or anything. Be reasonable with her and just explain that it's not the kind of picture you want to have in mind, especially when you're trying to get some sleep. Can she at least rearrange the furniture in her room or something? Maybe ask how she'd feel if you were 21 and she was having to hear similar noises coming from your room. She probably thinks you're asleep honey - don't be too hard on her.

Answer 3

I know kinda how you feel i'm a 13 year old girl and I live with my Mom, Grandmother, Great Aunt, And my Great Aunt's son my 35 year old cousin got A divorse(SP) and moved in and has his gf over all the time. And I'll be fixing me some lunch or be in the kitchen reading at night and they come in and sit down and their all over each other. I told them to get A room! But since this is your Mother you should sit down with her and ask her to keep it down. Just say mom can you and (insert his name here) be A little quieter at night plz, I cant sleep. Hope you find A answer. Good luck!

Answer 4

This is a great time to open the lines of communication with your mother. Explain to her that it makes you very uncomfortable and it's even interrupting your sleep. She might not realize that you can hear them in the other room.
I can promise you they won't stop but hopefully she'll be more respectful towards your feeling and make some changes.
You could also sleep with the radio on to drowned out some o the noise if your talk doesn't help.
Hopefully this will allow you to have a closer relationship with your mother. You should be able to talk to your mother about ANYTHING!
From a mother who enjoys her husband;)

Answer 5

tell yo mom how u feel bout it cuz no mom should put there boyfren over der child n if she dosent under stand i think u should tell some 1 else cuz this might lead to mo then just sex he could probley move in some day n i kno how dat is im 16 n my mom did the same thang gurl so i feel u on dat

Answer 6

Take it from someone who was sleeping on the floor with her mom and stepfather in the bed above her...there's really nothing you can do. I would suggest you mention it to your mom one day when you and she are alone and let her know that it bothers you that they are so loud. I'm sure she doesn't even realize how loud they are.

Good luck!

Answer 7

I'm a single parent to my 13 year old. I have never had a boyfriend back to my home.
I really feel for you. There is only one thing you can do and that's have a word with your mom. You need to tell her how you feel.

Answer 8

Ask your mom to meet her boyfriend at his house. If he doesn't have one, tell her boyfriend that he is bothering you and should do something about this problem. He will probably be really embarrassed (if he's a human at all) and find some solution.

Answer 9

Tell your mom how you feel. Maybe you could stay at your dads the nights that the bf is over.

Answer 10

See if you can organise to sleep at a friends place if you know his coming over.
But at 15 i would just pull mum to the side and say it kinda like a joke "ummm mum you mind keeping it down a bt tonight!" nudge nudge. lol
Memories..my mum was the same, but i was a horrible kid and would yell at her at the middle of the night to shutup or id get the hose lol.
Shocking i know,