Explanation of hynofetish client and followup question?

Question

Hi everyone who answered I had NO intention of indulging in this fetish. I'm not into it. I was wondering what to do about a person with a hynofetish who visits me. What is he is seeking from me as a therapist. Does he expect me to whip him and dominate him? What is hynofetish exactly and why would he be attracted to it. What is his psychological makeup? Is he violent or pathological? Whether I should try to cure him if there is a cure. I will talk to him to find out what the fetish involves but I had NO intention of indulging in anything in this 'kinky' realm. I thought I might get some input from others with more experience in this fetish area.Thanx

Answer 1

I believe you to be contemplating a visit to a therapist to attempt to absolve yourself of a behavior that you have grown tired of.

Yes, therapy can help. But, only from a professional.

Answer 2

I do not understand. This is obviously not a professional arrangement. And you are not a professional with a license. Not to be coming on thusly in a befuddled manner. So decide. There is nothing wrong with some sane self seeking into such fantasies. We all need a brush with reality at times. And if you don't know and you go there to find out you will. Otherwise consider yourself lucky and privileged that someone will reveal such intimate things if in truth they are doing it in good faith that you are able to help them. Or at least guide them to someone who will give the professional consideration necessary. And if they have picked you for this yet you do not want it or are not prepared to handle this... who has control in a therapeutic situation? Usually it is best to let the subject experience these things alone or at least not under observation due to the self learning process involved and the feeling of fulfillment that can lead one to seek moderation on his own, with your help in the one on one session where the verbal account with the confidence to speak of this. I could go on and on.