i'm really worried about my weight! i think i'm a little overweight. i'm 14 and i'm 5'4" and i weigh 129lbs. is this bad cause i think it is but i'm not sure. please help me i know this sounds stupid but i'm really concerned. am i to heavy that guys aren't goona think i'm attractive? is this a normal weight for my age and heigth?
2007-06-29 10:37:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i'm pretty comfortable with myself. i dont look fat or anything and i play alot of sports throughout the year. all this started because my mom told me i'm goona get fat and now i'm worried. i play soccer, basketball, track, horseback riding, and snowboarding.
2007-06-29 10:55:07 · update #1
i'm pretty comfortable with myself. i dont look fat or anything and i play alot of sports throughout the year. all this started because my mom told me i'm goona get fat and now i'm worried. i play soccer, basketball, track, horseback riding, and snowboarding. and i'm not so much worried about guys because i have a wonderful boyfriend who shows me how special i am everyday.
2007-06-29 10:55:37 · update #2
It depends. You should be asking your doctor this question, because none of us know your body type (small, medium, big boned) or medical history. Your doctor can check your BMI and tell you for sure.
2007-06-29 10:40:18 · answer #1 · answered by zippythejessi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, talk to your doctor; he'll tell you the truth. But most important, have a talk with your mother. I feel the anxiety you're having is because she has been telling you you'll get fat. If you are happy with your weight and the way you look, that is the most important. You play sports and I'm sure ea5t healthy (or you wouldn't have the energy for sports). A true man, no matter what the age, will value you for you and not put that much importance on weight.
2007-06-29 18:16:07 · answer #2 · answered by dk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, at 14, you still have a lot of growing to do. To me it sounds as though you have a very cute little figure at that weight and height. If you're really concerned, just eat healthy and stay active. Walk a lot, play sports, or ride a bike. You Will probably grow an inch this summer, which will take care of the weight all by itself.
2007-06-29 17:44:56 · answer #3 · answered by Funny Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're worried guys won't think you are attractive.
You shouldn't be. If a guy is shallow enough to not like you because you're a very normal weight, then that guy needs some help. Don't make guys or getting guys to like you the center of your life. Plus, confidence in yourself is the most attractive thing about a woman.
take care
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2007-06-29 17:49:15 · answer #4 · answered by bridgetize05 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might be a little overweight but don't stress too much about it. You're still in a growing stage so not eating or something will stop you from growing. You'll always have a chance to lose any extra weight before you go to college.
2007-06-29 17:43:00 · answer #5 · answered by Autumn Lavender 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
boo hoo im 5 ft 36 weeks pregnant and weigh 180 pounds i wish all i had to be concerned with is 9 pounds. go run to the mail box if your 14 it will be gone by the time you get back to the house....
2007-06-29 17:45:38 · answer #6 · answered by inluv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a normal weight for your height. it doesn't sound stupid, alot of people worry about how much they weigh and if it's attractive or not. but if you think you are overwight, then you are, and if you think that you're not, then you're not. always be happy with what your body looks. don't change for anybody. don't take anyone's ****.
2007-06-29 17:42:40 · answer #7 · answered by adrizzly_bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to your height, you're not fat. You're just average. If you already have a boyfriend, you shouldn't worry about being attractive to other guys.
2007-06-29 18:25:17 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs Apple 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is every ones obsession with asking, "Am i fat" and "Am I pretty"? If you want to know if your fat, ask a dr., If you want to know if your pretty, Ask your bf/gf or just simply look in the mirror!!
Those questions are even more annoying than the "OMG!! I;m 16 and pregnant!! What to do?" qustions.
2007-06-29 17:54:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry if u feel bad if then u should do some exercise and eat healthy food ur just the right weight for your age
2007-06-29 17:45:48 · answer #10 · answered by michelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋