Wronged as in publicized something private about her or more specifically told her parents about something she never wanted them to know?
2007-06-29 07:23:19 · 26 answers · asked by VoodooIS Doodoo23 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
~You ask her. You give her an absolutely sincere apology, and, if she needs you to, then you apologize to her parents as well. But, be sincere!
Just ask her.
I would forgive you if you really felt sorry for what you did. I might not forget - and I would never trust you again, but, I WOULD forgive you.
2007-06-29 07:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by Kitten2 6 · 6⤊ 2⤋
Forget about her, there are many women. UNLESS you're just trying to get back your Led Zeppelin collection, in which case it's OK to try.
Well, about women's forgiveness... First rule: never kiss ***. Second rule: never kiss ***. Third rule: do it in person. If it ain't possible, you could also try writting a good letter (or email) but I definitely do not recommend phone calls. Fourth: take all the blame. Women never take responsability for anything, so you'll have to say "It was my fault, I was such an idiot" and if she loves you, she'll say something like "Yes, I forgive you, BUT it was my fault too, I shouldn't...". If she doesn't, forget her.
Did you do anything wrong at all? I mean, was it intended, on purpose? If it was an accident, call her on her BS: "(Yelling) Hey, I've apologized already, OK! It wasn't my fault, you know?! But if you're gonna keep like that, fine, I don't want to see you either!" and walk away.
And the ultimate question is (ask yourself sincerely): would you still be seeking for her forgiveness if you were sitting right now with Scarlett Johansson and Jessica Alba in your arms? If the answer is NO, then the fact is you're only after P#SSY and you should be seeking else where, which is probably the truth.
Good luck.
2007-06-29 15:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by Fernando 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you don't... Once you hurt someone to the point of public embarrassment.. and potentially put a wedge between her and her parents... You don't make it right... you cant.... but what you can do is learn from this and never do it again... that will help you grow as a person.....
2007-06-29 14:28:42 · answer #3 · answered by burning both ends 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't thats why you need to avoid doing such things in the first place. I wished there were second chances in life, the only thing you can do is apologize to her, make her comfortable, don't send gifts that expensive just ones that make her happy and always add a personal note of apology, telling her you were wrong and if she could find it in her heart to let you know that she believes in your apology whether or not she forgives you.
2007-06-29 14:27:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
That is a toughy! She would probably rip up a note or not take a phone call. So your best bet is to apologize in public, since you publicly wronged her I think it's only fair that you apologize in public. Flowers and balloons would be appropriate or a sky written apology. Make sure that she's in the place to see it and make sure you close by..LOL.. Good luck.
2007-06-29 14:28:38 · answer #5 · answered by Marilyn M 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow that's a tough one. Since you basically advertised her personal information in public, chances are that she will hold a grudge. She is hurt and most likely feels betrayed and angry that you could do such a thing. You also told her parents something that she never wanted them to know. Now she will feel uncomfortable around her parents so you have to try to understand why she feels so hurt and upset. So if she ignores you or hangs up on you when you call her that is when you need to put yourself in her shoes.
Here is the thing. NO ONE is perfect so try not to be so hard on yourself. Maybe you were upset when you said those things about her. When she cools off talk to her and explain to her that you never meant to hurt her and that you deeply, sincerely apologize. Tell her you know you screwed up and you are willing to do anything to earn her trust again and make it up to her. She might still be hurt or angry and that is when you have to be patient. If you love her and know she is the one for you then she will be worth the wait. And for her sake maybe you should consider apologizing to her parents as well and tell them that what you told them was said out of anger. Good luck and & God bless.
2007-06-29 14:26:06 · answer #6 · answered by voiceofanangell 3 · 1⤊ 4⤋
O M Goodness your are dodo aren't you. She is going to have to have a very big heart to for give you because you not only hurt her you have hurt her parents and caused problems in the family. If I was you I would just move on and next time think before you open your mouth.
2007-06-29 14:28:36 · answer #7 · answered by Reta, Bears mommy 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
This sounds like you may have hurt her pretty bad. If you are going to apologize you MUST be sincere. This may take some time for her to get over, so wait it out a while and then attempt an apology.
Good luck!
2007-06-29 14:26:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Eventually she may forgive you, however she will probably never FORGET what you've done, leading to hurt feelings resurfacing at some point.
2007-06-29 14:27:05 · answer #9 · answered by musteatdonut 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Nice going
2007-06-29 14:25:51 · answer #10 · answered by [insomniac] 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋