keep beagin my girlfriend to forgive me??....my gf left me because am too jalous.....what happen is that a couple of months ago my gf cheated on me, I finally forgived her but I couldnt stop thinkng and having the image of her and the other guy in bed, since that day I became really jalous and I didnt trust her
on sunday she got fed up and left me, but I love her! i call her but she ignores m completely, should i keep insisting?? what should I do for her to forgive me??
2007-06-29 07:16:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dude, she cheated on you and now you want her back? The first thing you need to do is deal with the fact that she was unfaithful. There is no way you're going to get her back unless you deal with that. That means you can never bring that up again, nor think about it. It has to be a clean slate.
Then again, maybe you should just move on. Perhaps you're just depressed b/c she finally ended things when you didn't those months ago. I know, b/c I've been there. Maybe some time alone and making sure you get your head right is exactly what you need. I know I did. That girl and I are good friends now. When the opportunity came for us to start seeing each other again, I was cool, b/c I had moved on and it was much easier to forgive and forget.
2007-06-29 07:23:13 · answer #1 · answered by King H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off she does not deserve you why are you even doing this to yourself? All you are doing by calling her is saying baby I love you so much you can do what you want cheat on me ignore me and I will forgive you and call you over and over its like your letting her walk all over you STOP right now grab your ball$ and man up re-read what you wrote you have all the answers in your question you just refuse to accept it and until you do you will be unhappy i hope you snap out of it no girl or guy is worth the emotional pain or stress if they loved you they would make you happy not sad and if they cant then find someone who will!
2007-06-29 14:23:41 · answer #2 · answered by bkgrl718 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this girl hasn't really given you much reason to trust her. She cheated on you, you got jealous, and to top it all off she broke up with you and tried to make it seem like it was YOUR fault.
I think you need to let this girl go. Even if you do get together again, the chances are she will just betray you with someone else.
Find a nice girl, one who can remain faithful to you.
2007-06-29 14:21:44 · answer #3 · answered by T the D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all if she cheated on you why did you forgive her?Scince you did it must have been a good reason.But you should have move on if she is that mean about it.its her loss.If she loved you she wouldnt have let you go.You gave her the power to destroy you and trusted her not to,but she did.if that makes any scince at all.well good luck with what ever you do.
2007-06-29 14:26:34 · answer #4 · answered by jesidawnwaggoner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She cheated on you and your begging her to come back? you have every right to be jealous and not trust her. Just let her go and find somone who thinks your the one and only.
you will fall in love again but take into account your experience with this one and don't fall into the same trap
2007-06-29 14:19:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you beg her to forgive you?. you have done nothing wrong... okay you may be a bit jealous but its only her giving you reason to be.
Let her go now,im sure she will do the same to the next person.
Move on and find someone who cares.
2007-06-29 14:22:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First you need to stop calling her that feeds her ego! And then ask her how she would feel if you cheated on her. She would not be jelous It takes time to get over stuff like that!
2007-06-29 14:20:43 · answer #7 · answered by ♥I Love My Baby♂Boy♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it up. She cheated on you, and then was intolerant of your jealousy. You can do better. Stop calling her, move on, and keep yourself busy. Either she'll come around on her own, or you'll get over her and find someone better. Good luck!
2007-06-29 14:19:34 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i personaly think she is being stubborn... you have a God given right to not trust her as much after she cheated on you... just try a bit longer, and if it doesnt work out... she doesnt deserve you and you should just move on.. i know it will be hard but it will also be best
2007-06-29 14:21:19 · answer #9 · answered by Daniel Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want a "girlfriend" who sleeps around.
You should be jealous. Either consider her just a booty call or dump her and find someone trustworthy.
2007-06-29 14:20:38 · answer #10 · answered by Raven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋