keep begginn my girlfriend to forgive me??....my gf left me because am too jalous.....what happen is that a couple of months ago my gf cheated on me, I finally forgived her but I couldnt stop thinkng and having the image of her and the other guy in bed, since that day I became really jalous and I didnt trust her
on sunday she got fed up and left me, but I love her! i call her but she ignores m completely, should i keep insisting??
2007-06-29 07:15:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Gosh i'm sure you are in alot of pain, Its going to be hard but try to find something fun to do to take your mind off of her for a while, does she love you? She should be wanting your forgiveness for the cheating. Leave her alone for a while, if she loves you she will call. Sorry you are hurting so bad.
2007-06-29 07:25:02 · answer #1 · answered by beatch38 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did this get to be YOUR fault? SHE cheated on YOU!!! You have every right to be upset with her, and to question her fidelity and faithfulness, etc. SHE broke YOUR trust. What makes you think so little of yourself that you are willing to be her sloppy seconds? Face it - you love what you "think" she is, but she has proven that what you thought she was, isn't what she really is. Maybe you are having a harder time letting go of the *idea* of her, than actually letting go of her....
Please look into getting some counseling to figure out why you don't want more for yourself, why you are so willing to discount your own thoughts and feelings just to hang on to someone who obviously does not respect you or treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Once you are happy, healthy, and whole, you will attract others who are happy, healthy, and whole - not just those who end up exploiting your vulnerabilities.
Remember: two halves do not make a whole. It takes two wholes to make a good relationship!
I wish you luck. Hope this helps.
2007-06-29 14:28:00 · answer #2 · answered by Poopy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She cheated on you, and now you don't trust her...hmmm MAKE SENSE TO ME. You should've left her, not the other way around. Why would you WANT to stay with someone who cheated!?! Go hang out with your guy friends and find a new girl!
2007-06-29 14:25:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang, grow some nuts. Or at least let them drop. You don't want a cheater back... if you let her get away with it once, she'll just do it again. Clearly she isn't deserving so just move on and find someone better.
Some alone time may do you some good.
2007-06-29 14:22:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not obligated to forgive her. She's the one who should be begging you for forgiveness. The reality, is that she can't be trusted, not that you're too jealous. It sucks because you'd really like her to be everything she is AND trustworthy but the ugly truth is that she's not. She broke your trust.
2007-06-29 14:26:22 · answer #5 · answered by LG 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah dude, she cheated on you...she doesn't love you back. Let her go. There's always someone better out there.
2007-06-29 14:19:37 · answer #6 · answered by xsteelnuttzx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you must be pretty desperate to still be after her after 1. she cheated on you and 2. she left you because of a mistake that she... not you made
what is your problem?
2007-06-29 14:23:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
No, she will just float away farther and farther if you keep bugging her, find someone new, and be happy, and happy,and happy.
2007-06-29 14:18:11 · answer #8 · answered by daniellelee10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, you need to move on & learn to less jelous & more understanding.
2007-06-29 14:24:08 · answer #9 · answered by jon_mac_usa_007 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋