and very very depressed. How can u cheer me up???
2007-06-29 06:42:45 · 14 answers · asked by BeLlYdAnCeR 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it is because my marriage hasn't worked out the way that I wanted it to be and I almost have all my stuff packed up
2007-06-29 06:52:45 · update #1
Things could be alot worse than they are. You have today and I am sure there are many people that love you. Just turn on the news and you realize you are not alone because right when things feel that they cannot get any worse ....you hear of something a little more heart breaking than yours. Just the other day I read in the paper of a husband who killed his wife and three young children.....a woman has a car accident that left her own daughter, niece and nephew dead with one 2yr old and herself in critical condition. Five young cheerleaders under the age of 18 all their lives gone in an instant from a head on collision. My three year old nephew was killed by a babysitter and left the country. My sister lost her 14 yr old son climbing a union electric tower gets electrocuted and dies. My parents lost their home in a fire in the middle of the night due to an electrical storm losing everything they had and my 17 year old brother. There are things that happen and when they do you can only understand that there has to be something out there greater than we can ever know... that keeps us here and from losing our minds. As hard as life is people don't always have a choice about what happens to them and how others are affected for a life time. The only choice we have is to believe we can make a difference in what we feel from it all and learn even if we don't feel like going on. We can only treasure what was and keep all that they gave us in our heart and know that for a time our world was blessed for having known them. I don't know what your heart break is all about I can only tell you that with time things do get a little better. Look around you and appreciate what you had and what you still have now.Focus on your faith in something and if you don't have any ask the man upstairs to give you some and to help you carry it. Sometimes we need others to help us back into a world when life gets us down. We don't have to be alone because we are not made to be being human. Your heart may always carry a jagged scar but you can learn to live with things and have it make a difference in your life.Best wishes and may you find peace.
2007-06-29 07:31:00 · answer #1 · answered by Lindsey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is not a lot of information given so I am not sure what you have tried. The most important thing in a relationship is communication. You need to communicate with your spouse. One person may think everything is fine while the other bottles things up and gives the appearance of being happy. Plus all relationships go through tough patches. If you have tried everything you can to make your relationship work and truly want to remain with you man, talk with him. If there is nothing more to try it may be time to move on. Whatever makes you happy you should do.
2007-06-29 06:59:42 · answer #2 · answered by sportsfanstl1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw i am sorry that things are going the way that they are, just pray on it, and stay positive, and have some faith. I do not know what exactly is going on to comment fully on the situation but keep your head up and talk to me if need some
2007-06-29 10:23:32 · answer #3 · answered by Yanni 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go outside and sit in the sun, better yet, take a walk through a grave yard... your worse day will seem less significant.
2007-06-29 06:46:52 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well go to the book store
go to the Ymca
call old friend and go to the movies
walk in the park
clean out your closet which you know you need to be done...
go to chatt rooms and talk to people
if you still feel really bad call a help line and talk to then.
give your time to charity...
2007-06-29 06:57:18 · answer #5 · answered by shayhi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is very difficult, as anyone who has been through it can attest. Join the company here, it might help you feel better.
2007-06-29 06:59:55 · answer #6 · answered by franj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go shopping & treat yourself to some junk food ;) chocolates, ice cream, cakes, etc. Sugar always lightens your mood
2007-06-29 06:57:23 · answer #7 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May I ask why are you depressed and heartbroken?
2007-06-29 06:46:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh! cheer up..i'm pretty sure it's just the batteries that are dead.....J/K...happy now!
2007-06-29 06:55:48 · answer #9 · answered by Zoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to be like most on this earth?
2007-06-29 06:50:57 · answer #10 · answered by Little big brains 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋