I know if I didn't cheat I would have been divorsed a long time ago. I don't put it in her face and as far as I know she has no clue. To me it's better to get a little on the side when I get bored than to split my family up. I've been happily married for 10 years cause I cheat!!! I can see the ladies faces getting red now, sure glad no one has figured out how to slap through a computer yet.
2007-06-29 06:12:33 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How about you learn to spell? Or use a spell check? If you were my husband I would have "divorsed" you ages ago when I realized what an idiot you were. (Though I don't date men like you. I have more class than the trash your probably "getting on the side".)
2007-06-29 07:13:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok you are say you are still married for 10 years because u have a piece on the side. But really how do you really know that your family is happy. Your wife for example, how do you know. She has to know youa re cheating she is just problay in denial. But fine if this is what works for you its your call. Just think about this if the only thing that is keeping your marriage together is the family what happens when your children grow up and move out. Doesnt your wife deserves to be happy?>?
2007-06-29 13:29:21 · answer #2 · answered by Tia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And just like a lot of other men, they may feel the same way you do. Besides being a man and telling your wife that your cheating and risk losing her, you rather stay with her-- and cheat. It is not right. Man! I tell you if I could slap you right now I would! Wait some years,with technology today, I may be able to come through this computer. LOOK OUT FOR MY HAND!
2007-06-29 13:23:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what's wrong with the beautiful wife you have a t home? If she's not for you - is it really worth risking breaking her heart just to get some on the side? If you feel teh need to sleep around cool, it's your choice, but don't break her heart, you have a family with her. I'd rather be split up - who knows maybe your woman might be getting some on teh side - how would you like it to know she was in between another mans thighs and just did't tell you becasue she don't want a broken family either? Not all girls are angels.....be careful!
2007-06-29 13:18:12 · answer #4 · answered by Rebekkah 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What a jerk you are and I sure feel sorry for your wife. Most times when a person cheats they eventully do and will get caught. My first husband cheated on me and was caught. He had got the other woman pregnant and the child support papers were handed to me at my front door. If you were happily married then you would not even think about cheating. It must be nice to cheat and brag about it.
2007-06-29 13:26:07 · answer #5 · answered by Nancy M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you figure you are such a cool man running lose with you pants down and you wife has no clue. Well here a thought maybe she is doing the same thing to you. Watch yourself because when you least expect it she is gonna walk out on you. As for keeping your family happy dream on children get affected by this as much as the grown ups. But hey, someday they will grow up and be just like you. Be Proud!
2007-06-29 13:25:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So let me get this straight...you think it's better to "get a little on the side" than split your family up...get a little what- STD?! And how would you feel if you found out that your wife is sleeping around too? Would it still be alright? You shouldn't have gotten married if you weren't ready for a monogamous relationship. It's not fair to your wife or your children- especially if you give them a disease!
2007-06-29 13:19:05 · answer #7 · answered by terasa425 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people feel that they need more than one person and the adrenaline rush from cheating keeps them at it. Others don't feel this way they know that if they're caught that someone will be hurt and it damages the core of the family and the person who has trusted you. So for me - no cheaters and no cheating it hurts too bad.
2007-06-29 13:15:52 · answer #8 · answered by justaboutpeace 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am a lady with no red face. While I would have thought differently once I caught my hubby, I ended up leaving him because I was cheating on him. He cheated on me first. I was pissed to say the least. I gave up on my marriage. I didn't want him touching me or anything. I met who is now my boyfriend and cheated on my soon to be ex with him. I was finally happy for once and was cheating.
Would I still be married? Nope I planned on leaving him anyway. My new hunny just gave me more incentive to do it faster.
2007-06-29 13:23:28 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow. 10 years is a long time. im just coming of a break up. cheaters hurt. if you dont love her then why dont you just go? im sure you will both be happier if yall are apart. &dont assume she doesnt know, because she might. women know when their man is dicking around. i think you should tell her &maybe shell leave or yall can work something out so yall can be together &work it all out. you have children with her? id deff be kicking some *** if i were her. how could she not know? thats pretty rotten, dude.
2007-06-29 13:24:22 · answer #10 · answered by misty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋