Sex after a man ejaculates? Painful?

Question

I heard that after a man ejaculates it hurts him to have sex, even if he is still "hard". Is this true?

I was having sex with my boyfriend, and he "cam" before I did, when I tried to continue to have sex with him, he stopped me and told me he "cam"... But he was still "hard".. Did he lie to me? Why was he still "hard"?

A friend of mine said her boyfriend can keep having sex right after he ejaculates.. Is this true?

*No, I'm not asking this because I want to reveal something about my personal life
*No, I'm not asking if you think I should find a new partner
*No, I did not ask this question so you can find some witty response.

All answers would be greatly appreciated, I am too shy to ask my boyfriend [I don't want to know your opinions about this, either], and I am simply curious..

Thank you for your time!

Answer 1

Not exactly painful, but a man's penis usually becomes very sensitive right after he has an orgasm (the ejaculation part is incidental). Some men can continue to have their penis touched and stimulated continuously, but most can't, even though it may stay erect. It just becomes very tender, at least for a few minutes. It's called a refractory period, shorter or non-existent for some men, longer for others.

After my wife climaxed, it was very uncomfortable for her for me to try to continue to stimulate her. Same thing? Common?

Answer 2

Most often premature ejaculation occurs in younger men, but it can affect men of all ages. There could be a number of different reasons for the problems, both physical and psychological. The good news is that there are certain solutions available that have proven effective, such as the Ejaculation Trainer (see site here http://www.goobypls.com/r/rd.asp?gid=565), which can show a man how to develop permanent ejaculation control. By successfully addressing a man’s ejaculation concerns and teaching him how to control it, he will quickly become more confident and both he and his partner will be much more satisfied.
Cheers.

Answer 3

It totally depends on your woman. For me, the best sex is when both partners come at around the same time. Don't go off too fast, but don't keep banging on for 30 mins either. That will just make me sore. Women are all very different when it comes to sex. Some women come very quickly, and some women take longer. Personally, I'm usually done in under 5 mins of actual intercourse, but I've also heard that the average for women masturbating is 14 mins (and I'd therefore expect that it would take them a bit longer again when they were having intercourse). Some women have sequential orgasms, where they can keep going with pretty much never-ending intercourse, and just have orgasm after orgasm. However, some women have a refractory period after orgasm (just like men), where the vagina loses arousal and sex can become quite painful. Unfortunately you can't make one rule and apply it to all women: it won't work for everyone. The best option is to talk to your partner and find out what she likes. If she can't tell you, then just watch for her cues: does she want you to stop, or does she want you to keep going. We won't be able to tell you what's going to work for her.

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Answer 4

Some guys lose their erections after they ejaculate, but if they don't there isn't any reason other trhan lack of interest for the guy to stop. problem with younger guys who don't have a lot of self control, is after they come, the sex is over. They can't go the distance.

Answer 5

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Premature ejaculation is not some gene you're born with, the result of your penis size or a part of your personality that you can never change.

Answer 6

I am female, so obviously my response is based on my experiences and observations of my guy.

It's my understanding that after climaxing, for many the tip of the penis becomes very, very sensitive (for most men). After oral sex, I have to be very careful with my boyfriend because the increased sensitivity can cause him pain.

I also know that most of the men I've been with lose their erection slowly after orgasm; it's not a quick "deflate." The body needs time to move the blood back out of the penis, so it makes sense that he may still be somewhat hard right after cumming.

Answer 7

For me, it's not so much painful, it's just that after I ejaculate, I kind of lose interest, and humping just becomes another chore.

Answer 8

One possibility: His glans may get very sensitive right after an orgasm almost to the point of pain. I can't even touch mine its so sensitive. It should be OK after a minute or so and he should be back in the saddle.

Answer 9

After a man cums his penis is really sensitive and sore to touch, the blood that was in his penis keepin it erect has flowed back in to the rest of his body. There is very few men who can have sex again after just cumming.

Answer 10

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