Ok so I been seeing my girlfriend for nearly 4 months now ... we have travelled a pretty rocky road in the past few months but in the past few weeks things have been looking up ... we had a huge argument and I was ready to walk but she told me that she really doesnt want to lose me ... so I stayed thinking ok so if she does it again thats me gone ... I have tried my hardest to distance myself to stop getting hurt ... as you do! ... But last weekend she went to Glastonbury and I missed her soooo bad, she text me and told me she really likes me in fact she thinks she may love me ... I told her I think I might love her too ... she came home and things have been fantastic ... her kisses tasete so much sweeter ... she is so much more loving and affectionate and the way she looks at me sometimes makes me melt ... I so wanted to tell her I love her but Im scared! ... we are going camping this weekend should I tell her when I get a good opportunity??
2007-06-29 02:10:09 · 17 answers · asked by Joanne 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What I mean by a rocky road is that we had a bit of a skethy start ... she has never really had a relationship with anyone before ... she is used to her own space and we started spending a lot of time together straight away and she didnt know how to handle it! ... but since then we have found our happy medium and find everytime we are apart we want to be together and end up seeing each other anyway ... I dont know I feel like Im falling fast and after I got hurt so much by my ex its scaring the **** out of me!
2007-06-29 02:41:14 · update #1
only tell her you love her if you really, deep down mean it. the worst thing you can do to a girl is tell her you love her and not really mean it cause chances are if she says it to you, she 100% means it. it's not something that should be forced, say it when you are ready.
2007-06-29 02:15:27 · answer #1 · answered by jmum82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie go for it! tell her how you really do feel. but you need to do it on a 1 on 1 basis, no out side influences just you and her! she'll then know how you feel and at the same time you'll feel better as it will not be eating you any more. you never know she may say the same back - I hope so. If it does go well and you do end up tying the knot can i be the page boy?
2007-07-02 04:34:27 · answer #2 · answered by Cruz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked a similar question 2 months ago and you still haven't told her although you admit you did in a text - so you have told her and she is still there - she hasn't 'run a mile' - do you need an invitation from her - the signs are there - TELL HER & good luck - enjoy each other.
2007-06-29 09:16:26 · answer #3 · answered by jamand 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when the time is right it will just come out.
she seems to be very cautious so it might be an idea to wait past the six month mark just so she feels more comfortable with it, also even if you are not ready to say it back its a lovely thing to hear so probably important for you to let her know you want to say it cos you love her and not because you are waiting for her to say it back, let her know you are ok with the fact that she might not say it back, ive found from past experience sometimes girls wont say it back even if they do love you, they are just not ready.
2007-07-02 14:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by myprecious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Phew. Is it quite an up and down relationship? Could you put up with that forever? Being told youre loved can make you feel giddy and nice, make sure you dont just say it back due to this excitement, make sure you really mean it.
2007-06-29 09:55:19 · answer #5 · answered by ~ blondie ~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've only been together for 4 months and you're already describing it as a 'rocky road'?? Wowee, are you sure this is the right thing?
2007-06-29 09:27:17 · answer #6 · answered by rainy-h 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you scared of? She is obviously feeling the same as you so rejection isn't a problem. Definately tell her when you go camping. Hope you's stay happy x
2007-06-29 09:17:02 · answer #7 · answered by mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on m8 ask her to be ur gf u mite hav an answer but just in case shes rejects just keepon tryin
2007-06-29 10:32:57 · answer #8 · answered by matthew f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her coz its your gfriend n u love him.
2007-07-02 13:04:56 · answer #9 · answered by zenzemab 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her..it can be spontaneous that would be an awesome story
2007-06-29 09:15:40 · answer #10 · answered by Ancokely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋