I'm a 19 year old women and i wants to be bi but i don't know why . i gets jealous of bisexual people. I was reading some thing on line about sexuality and i ended up with wet eyes. why do i want to be bisexual so badly?
P.s I have questioned my sexuality.
2007-06-28 22:09:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I don't know if I'm bisexual or straight,but i wants to be bisexual.
2007-06-28 22:16:23 · update #1
C'mon here Hunny, and sit down. Ignore everyone else- I'm going to tell you the truth, nothing but the truth, and then you'll figure it out ok?
A)Between "now" and the time you're 25/26 years old your personality is going to change at least another 6 or 7 times before it "freezes" for the rest of your life.
B)Every person reaches a stage of development where they experiment with memebers of the opposite sex and memebers of the same sex. Some do it as children, some do it as teenagers, some do it as young adults, and some like it so much they simply stay with memebers of the same sex.
C)My quesiton is- do you REALLY want to be a bisexual or is it you want to be accepted and respected by your group of social friends? Only you can answer this.
D)Being a bisexual ANYTHING is akward at best. The guys you date think its great- because they're hopeing they can talk you into a 3some/4some or moresome and they're hopeing THEY will get a chance to boink the other girl you're doing.
However, the "flip side of this coin" is if you add another guy? They become insanely jealous.
Every "open" or "Multiple partner" relationship I've ever seen has been destroyed when this happens.
Lack of trust, lack of intimatcy,,,it'll kill a relationship.
So, when you experiment- and I'm sure you will- and if you decide to stay bi, then you'll be better off with another bi GUY, unless you decide you'd rather be with women only.
Straight stastics Bi's are more unhappy and disatisfied with their lifes than anyone else.
Good Luck
2007-07-06 11:09:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you. Be bisexual if that's the way you feel. You may just be bi-curious and need to experiment some, before you decide what sex you are interested in. It's not that big of a deal. It's probably more important right now to decide what kind of career you are interested in. The sexual thing just happens when you are ready.
2007-07-06 20:10:36 · answer #2 · answered by quietspoken01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you said you want to be bi. But look deep inside you and ask youself this question and see what it returns. If you are a christian then you know that being bi is not acceptable in gods eyes.But who are we to judge. You will have to answer to the supreme being one day so don't mess your life up by taking the wrong path.
2007-07-07 02:52:42 · answer #3 · answered by wanda w 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, the yahoo-answers forum isn't the place to deal with an issue of this weight, but I can probably throw a little advice your way. I've recently taken to describing myself as a gay man trapped in a straight man's libido. I really have no interest in other men sexually, but I'm able to connect with them emotionally/intellectually better than I have with any woman. This is because we're both coming from the same place. Similarity of thought. I suspect you might be experiencing the same thing. You want a woman because you can connect easier and deeper with another woman than you can with a man, but you just genuinely aren't interested in screwing a woman. Good luck finding love.
2007-06-29 05:16:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why is there anything wrong with you? You're just trying to find yourself. Relax, the sun will still come up tomorrow. As for what to do, try meeting other bi people. You will find the answer. Good Luck
2007-06-29 05:16:53 · answer #5 · answered by USN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with you at all.
You're a normal human with normal urges.
If part of you is clamoring so strongly at you, maybe you need to listen. Maybe not. The choice to accept that part of yourself is, of course, yours.
My only suggestion is research. Check into the documents on bisexuality, and the GLBT communities in your area.
You're not alone; many people have struggled with this.
Good luck :D
2007-06-29 05:13:43 · answer #6 · answered by Threshin 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
bi curious
2007-07-06 05:33:01 · answer #7 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude Nothing wrong with you at all..
relax 4 that...not complicated jst continue if whats ur feeling
lol
2007-06-29 07:15:52 · answer #8 · answered by quiksilver 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Y DID U ASK THIS???????
2007-06-29 05:13:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋