my sister is married to a infertile person e troubles h a lot shld she go for a divorcee?

Question

My sister is very soft natured r marriange is 7yrs old she didnt disclose r husbands problem to us for a couple of yrs as she taught that even with out a child they can lead a life but r husband acts too pshyco sometimes but still she is with him bearing all his mental torture hw will i convince r fr a divorcee or is there any alternate of r husband becoming proper

Answer 1

Such a marriage can be annulled under the provisions of the Hindu Marriage Act,1955 section 12 (1) (a) that the respondent was impotent at the time of the marriage and continued to be so until the institution of the proceedings; If the person is impotent not only infertile & if the parties have married according to Hindu Form of marriage. The second case be taking divorce under section 13 of this Act on the ground of mental cruelty as his psycho nature adds to he mental torture along his being infertile person. The divorce by mutual consent of both the parties to such a marriage under section 13-B of this Act is the best way to get rid of this marriage as this is the most economical & less time consuming way to dissolve any marriage. These are few options for the dissolution of marriage.

Answer 2

Let your sister take the decision...
human reproduction is a very complex system... both the partners are equally responsible for success or failure... a detailed medical check-up of both of them is a must... as far as the husband being psycho sometimes, is concerned, non-cooperation by your sister also may be the probable reason...
Divorce is not the solution...

Answer 3

I think she should leave him but not because of the infertility. Infertility is something which is not in the man's hand. No man on earth would want to be one like that. Apart from it, if her husband is giving her mental torture first she should have a separation then she should file a case against him and sue him hard.

Answer 4

Your sister needs help. First of all take her to a family counsellor. Let her discuss her problem with the counsellor. Then she has to go with her husband and have counselling. If her husband is really a psycho, he has to be treated. We don't know who is at fault. It has to be decided by the counsellor and or psychiatrist. Then your sister and husband have to take a decision whether to change their attitude and live together or go for a divorce.

Answer 5

My heart goes out to your sister. But I think marriages are made in heaven and no man can divide, however, if the husband persists to torment her I think your sister should stand up for herself and ask why is he treating her this way. Is it because he is becoming frustrated, angry thus becoming violent towards her? Tell him that as his wife , he can share his problems and together they can help solve it.Marriage requires teamwork. It doesn't go without the other. Get them to talk and settle this problem as soon as possible.

Answer 6

If ur sister wants out of the marriage, if it's a catholic marriage, she can get it annuled. But it should solely be her decision. The fact that she's waited so long to tell anyone might mean that she loves the man she married even though he's like this.

Answer 7

In my opinion, him being infertile isn't a reason for divorce. Anybody else suggesting that needs to rethink what marriage is really about. If your sister, dosen't mind, you shouldn't either - respect her opinion on that. However, his attitude may need to be redirected to a counsellor, and she should do that now rather than later. Remember you are on the outside looking it - it's not all it appears to be

Answer 8

Infertility is not a problem now a days, he can be treated and problem can be averted. But the domestic violence is concerned one has to take care and take the assistance of Domestic violence protectors available in every town duly in organised manner by the State Governments. You can easily solve the problem.

Answer 9

I think u should stay out of this. If you feel so sorry for her then advice ur sister to take her husband to a good doctor, or just make her adopt a child. REg. ur b-i-l's problem just ask them to try siddha medicines. No harm in trying.

Answer 10

if i could have been in place of your sister then after marriage .

every problem of the husband is her problem , leaving the husband means leaving the valuable life .because the permanent things are the feelings which can not be recreated . material gain is nothing.