my friend is a lieing backstabbing b*tch..what do i do?

Question

she lies about everything and anything...if u stop being her friend or get into a arguement then she goes baackstabbing you. she doesn't keep secrets either. she knew who i liked adn she said she won't tell ANYONE but then she goes and tells our whole group telling them not to tell me she said that....what da i do? I HATE HER....and don't suggest telling on her or confronting her...coz if i confront her then it will cause a bigger problem and others have already done that...it didn't turn out so well..

i know not to be her friend anymore...im not stupid

Answer 1

i had that kind of friend
he was a frikkin b*&^%. Stop being her friend. BUT, first find her weak spot. Like what she hates, what she fears, past not so good experiences. Be a good friend and do whatever she says. Then start backstabbing her. Don't get too bad. DON'T LET HER KNOW THAT YOU DID IT. Have fun with it. Also, it might turn out that with her kind of personality, others will hate her too, use that as your advantage.

Answer 2

Yes, naturally, don't be friend's with her anymore. But really, if u seriously believe she would make it worse for u if u stood up to her, then don't---even though I'm a big advocate for taking a stance against anybody---providing I'm fairly justified, which I feel u would be in this situation. But sometimes silence is the best medicine. It also sounds as if she'll cause sh*t for u regardless on what action u take! . And if a lot of ppl know her, then they'll know whatever comes out of her mouth is probably a load of s*it!!! She seems to get & keep her friend's through verbal & emotional manipulation---don't fall into her web!!! If she does start more crap about u, don't be sucked into it. Don't say nothing, don't react---that'll p1ss her off more than anything, lol. Good luck>>>ZETA!!!

Answer 3

well i'd hate to say this but.She's NOT A TRUE FRIEND! I had a friend like that once and her name was Nikkie. She allways wanted to be the leader of our crew.We are not a gang we are just a group of girlz everyone loves. lol :]
But you shouldn't tell her anymore secrets and try to avoid her a lil bit.Maybe she will be a friend for once and ask whats wrong and why your doing that.
Or you could allways tell her that if she doesn't keep your secrets and if she doesn't stop starting rumors than your friendship is over.
She most likely won't care if your friends or not at that point.
But in a lil bit she will notice that what she did was wrong and that she would really like to be friends for a time.
She doesn't know how much she loves you till she's lost you.
just do what you want but think before you do something :]
-Rose-

Answer 4

With friends like her, you don't need an enemy. Dump her, and if she starts to lie on you, (yes, confront her about it).
I've found it best in the long run, to deal with anything unpleasent, head on and ready for whatever it brings. If you don't it doesn't get better, trust me on that. Stop telling everybody things you don't want the world to know.
She sounds like a real piece of work. Why have you been her friend???. Friendship by intimidation, that's what you have
good luck and God bless.

Answer 5

First of all she is not, was not and will NEVER be a friend to you. Cut of all ties with her and in the future, don't tell anyone secrets. A good rule of thumb is, before you devuldge any big secret, ask yourself,,,,,will I care if anyone else ended up finding out about this??? Take it from there. But anywho...yeah cut the backstabbing ***** off, this way she can't weasel her way back into your good graces and find out more b.s. to backstab you with. IGNORE HER. That's punishment enough.

Answer 6

i would stop being friends with her. if she cares at first and wants to "backstab" let her go on backstabbing. pretend like you do not care at all and she will soon wear-out with your lack of reaction. She will move on tp her next victim so to speak until that someone too doesnt take it. its her cycle to have to break and you alone cant change her behavioral patterns. just dont enable her to continue being that way for your own sake. if a lot of people stop being her friend she will realize that her power was taken. at that point i would talk to her and maybe invite her back into your group. normally people who act out in such ways are hurting and need love the most. But, in order for her to see what she is doing isnt fair, you need to stop letting it work! so far it seems like it has been working for her.

Answer 7

Fine, don't confront her. Just stop hanging out with her. It sounds like she's poison, don't put up with her any more. Sure, she'll probably take some shots as she goes, but she's doing that anyway. Eventually, she'll tire of it, or won't know anything about you to tell.

Answer 8

if she tells you're crushes for you....
DONT HATE HER!
she's kinda doing you a favor.

dont tell her secrets in the first place.
ignore her completely!
does she have proof of every rumor or truth she spreads around?
NO!
let her, she cant prove it!
and if people confront you ask where the source is..
obviously they wont say,
but...
ask anyways and then ask them
"do you even know the full story?"
"how would you know, were you there?"
"do you have evidence? no? DIDNT THINK SO!"
"do you know what she says about you?"
"why would you believe that bullshit?"

or

go to a principal...you won't be a snitch!!! if you ask to be annonymous it'll be kept that way. be sure no one sees you!! and they dont have proof of you doing what you do anyways.

Answer 9

Even i gotta friend like that. to dispose her off use the following steps:
1.say her how u feel about her,she may then get ur point, either confront her & do it or just send her aan email.
OR
2.say her a story in which she is u & ur the backstabbing friend. then ask her what she will do if she was in ur place.
OR
3.just avoid her.
OR
4.do what she doez to u
OR
5.complain to her mom or her
OR
6.be completley rude to her

Answer 10

i had a friend like that once. she was really stupid. she hated fat people, dark skinned people, and people with short hair. she would often tell me not to hang with certain people. i did it anyway. she got pissed and went around TRYING to spread rumors about me like im gay or i stuff my bras .I know its stupid.lol she did the same to alot of others so we all got together and was about to jump her. she heard word and hid out. she came trying to apologize saying she did not do anything. i acted like i believed her cause i know she is going to talk about me regardless and started plotting. she never suspected anything. and til this day she has a huge scar on her face to remember y she shouldn't do that . yes i got her and a couple of the others jumped in. now she is trying to be my friend. how bogus is that.