2007-06-28 20:38:53 · 5 answers · asked by pesticide 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I've been married once....what the hell was i thinking...anyway....I've seen the way this world turns by watching the people around me. I see all these people that get married and end a few years later. Then i know these couples that aren't married. Don't seem to have the problems that married couples do...haven't figured it out completely but I kinda look at it like this. They are still friends...FRIENDS....hey isn't that the way it should be. Seems like you get that paper then your tied to the other...what...more stress?...like you need more. I decided I'll marry again when I'm 50 if i meet someone in the next five or so years and we are still together then lets get married. Think about it at 50 it's not like sex will be as big of an issue like now along with other things. If one of us isn't pleased with the other then no worries other than a broken heart....no courts and crap. You can also look at commitment ceremonies (mostly used for gay and lesbian marriages)....no paper just marring in the eyes of god and your families. That's the way they used to do it before attorneys. Anyway 50 year old I'll be married to the woman that is my best of best friends and the love I've always wanted...trust and all.
Might think about the commitment ceremonies because you seem to be going through some soul searching on the relationship part of your life....if she's giving you pressure....woman are hard man...lol
2007-06-28 21:12:08 · answer #1 · answered by William C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dislike children. I hate them, actually. I never want to have children. This said, a surprisingly large amount of women want to have children. My chances of meeting a woman who does not want children is about as good a chance as me finding an alien riding a horse in Downtown traffic. That said, I also do not feel compelled to get married, nor do I find the companionship of a woman completely necessary to my well being and happiness.
2007-06-29 03:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by The Professor 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Things change and so to people and their interests. Boredom and the same old thing all the time contributes to this. Nick picking and wanting things your way or their way also causes this to happen.
2007-06-29 03:42:53 · answer #3 · answered by Boomer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont wanna get married because to many marriges end in divorce and i dont want to have to do that.. lol
2007-06-29 03:43:21 · answer #4 · answered by sweeter.than.apple.pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i want to get married, but my wife has to be overly nice, needleds in heystacks are hard to find.
maybe i will end up single.
2007-06-29 03:42:27 · answer #5 · answered by chickenlittle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋