ok, i was at a party the other night with my girlfriend and things got a little crazy and long story short she is pregnant now. I'm 14!!!! What do i do?!?!?!?
2007-06-28 18:29:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
the party was a month ago
2007-06-28 18:35:44 · update #1
talk to her. whenever a girl gets pregnant especially at such a young age she can't keep it bottled up inside. eventually her parents will find out and its a better idea to tell them what happens instead of letting things fall into place.
but most importantly DON'T LEAVE HER. everytime a guy gets a girl pregnant they break up w/ her. let her know she can trust u and talk to u bout her feelings.
P.S. how the crap do u know she's pregnant if it waz just so called "the other night"
either u just put that or someone isn't telling the truth.
2007-06-28 18:49:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
WOW!!!
I think there are several things that you can do. First, let your parents know exactly what is going on. While they may yell and probably be very unhappy to say the least, I'm sure deep down that they love you and want what is best for you, your girlfriend and the future child. ( I told my kids that I didn't want any "suprises" as in them ending up pregnant or getting a girl pregnant.)
Don't know how you or your girlfriend feel about aboution - but that is one option.
Another option is for her to have the baby and give it up for adoption. Right now you'll are probably in no position to care for and raise a baby.
Another option is for one set of the future grandparents to help with the rearing of the child until you two can decide what is best of you and your girlfriend. ( as far as staying together, possible marriage in the future, whatever)
I am curious as to hold old the girlfriend is. You did not state her age.
Do her parents know of the situation? If not, they need to know what is happening.
HOPEFULLY THIS WILL TEACH YOU TO KEEP YOUR PANTS ZIPPED OR IF NOT ZIPPED - PLEASE, PLEASE USE A CONDOM. THAT IS WHAT THEY WERE INVENTED FOR.
MOST IMPORTANTLY - DO NOT QUIT SCHOOL!!!!!! IF YOU CHOOSE TO QUIT - YOU WILL REGRET IT THE REST OF YOUR LIFE.
Honey, you have a long, long, long row to hoe. Eventually you will see light at the end of the tunnel. Good luck with what ever you and your girlfriend decide to do.
I have 2 daughters,ages 26, 24 and a son who is 19.
2007-06-29 01:54:44 · answer #2 · answered by Su-Nami 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
grow up...your about to be a father.
sex isn't a game. you'll probably want to take the childish way out and get an abortion, but your old enouph to know that killing the child you recklessly created is just as wrong as impregnating your girldriend at a party.
-hbb
ps
if the party was "the other night", how do you know so soon that she is pregnant? you should be discussing this with your parents, and your girl, and her parents, not us.
2007-06-29 01:39:20 · answer #3 · answered by hot black babe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First thing, Dont panic! Only DNA will tell if it is your baby.
Are u for sure it is your baby>?
It is no way she can be pregnant unless she misses 2 periods in a row, that is 2 months after having sex, then she can be sure she is pregnant.
She may just be shooting u a bunch of bull.Chill Out.
2007-06-29 04:05:27 · answer #4 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you are in a bind. The only thing you can do is talk to her parents and to your parents. They gonna kick your butt, but you will need to let them know. A baby is something that cannot be hidden. In the future, keep it in your pants until you are ready for the consequences of your actions.
2007-06-29 01:36:25 · answer #5 · answered by gleemonex69 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how long ago was the party?
if it was just the other night, it is too soon to know that she is pregnant.
2007-06-29 01:33:56 · answer #6 · answered by kathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would have had to of happend about a month ago for her to know that she is pregnant now!
I would definatly ask for a paternity test since your so young and there really isnt anything you can do now she holds all the cards
2007-06-29 01:36:36 · answer #7 · answered by alishatravis 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"Just the other night" is way too soon for her to know that she is pregnant with your child. Talk to your parents, she is scamming you. Or, just wait it out and see.
2007-06-29 01:36:36 · answer #8 · answered by newmommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Iwould hope my son would come to me so that we can work everything out together.always remember to keep your dreams and remember there would be nothing wrong if thats what is opted
2007-06-29 03:08:03 · answer #9 · answered by EMILIOSMOM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her parents, and take her to hospital . don't be so shame. you are a man. you can't deal with it .you are too young. help from your parents. it's the best.i think they will understand you feeling.good boy .good luck.
2007-06-29 02:19:18 · answer #10 · answered by kevin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋