ok im going swimming with a friend and her bro likes me theres quite a age diff. and lik im very self consious i really dont want to get in a bathing suit in front of them what should i do?
2007-06-28 18:08:09 · 21 answers · asked by muzik_craz_r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
lol but thats the thing when sumone likes u and then they see what u look like in a bathing suit and u look like me its not very exciting! im lik 145lbs and 5'3
2007-06-28 18:14:33 · update #1
swimming? why go if you are not going to just be yourself. what do you have to be self consious about? if he likes you he probably won't care about what you look like in a swimsuit.
2007-06-28 18:12:53 · answer #1 · answered by TillieDillie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Want to know what you should do? and you probly have heard this 1000 times but its something i always want from girls and its something im sure they want in return. Be honest if he stares at you or anything ignore him. From what i read the age difference must be your the eldest one and hes around 9. Dont worrie my 5 year old cousin likes me with creaps some people out but i know she is just a child so i just play with my little bro and my 2 little cousins and dont let it get to me. Dont let him get to you he will move on trust me
2007-06-29 01:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Wear a T-shirt over the bathing suit, or maybe nylon athletic shorts, if not both..
2. If the guy is too old for you, don't lead him on.
2007-06-29 01:10:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you are interested in your friend's brother, than show some skin. if not, stick to a whole bathing suit rather than a one-piece (bikinis). it would show that youre not interested and will not give him any ideas...
hope this helps, and good luck!
2007-06-29 01:12:29 · answer #4 · answered by frederick c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well wat i do is wear my swimsuit and then some shorts or a big t-shirt
if her brother likes u so wat
don't be self concious just don't lead him on and i suggest wearing shorts with ur bathing suit it's cute but won't show off too much
2007-06-29 01:12:56 · answer #5 · answered by tenone2010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go swimming, dont even show up cause then you'll feel like and even bigger a$$ when u dont wanna get changed into your swimming suit
2007-06-29 01:11:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have fun. if u wear all taht extra stuff, ur just proving ur self contious, and thatll kinda make him imagine things..... like, things u dont want him to think XD
2007-06-29 01:14:24 · answer #7 · answered by PiXeL_PuNk001001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said he already likes you, so i am sure he would be happy to see you in your bathing suit. do you like him? strut your stuff for him, and i bet you will both be happy
2007-06-29 01:23:12 · answer #8 · answered by Jimmy L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suck it up.Beauty is not bathing suit deep
2007-06-29 01:12:30 · answer #9 · answered by niacey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be confident. Guys like that. If you don't want him to like you them I guess you'll just have to deal with it. Life's tough. Lol
2007-06-29 01:10:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋