my parents are goign to make me go to this school next yeaer for 8th grade... My parents know that I used to be bullied at that school but they think taht my education will be "100 times better" but I know that the kids still hate me because they still act like it.. what should I do??
2007-06-28 17:06:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Primary & Secondary Education
Thats a hard question to answer. If I were you, I'd make a whole new impression. I'd show them that I've changed and that I can make a big difference. so, think about a new impression. Try thinking that this is like getting a second chance. You never know, things might not be diffrent for them, but you can make it diffrent for you. (And maybe them!)
2007-06-30 08:05:52 · answer #1 · answered by MaRyLiZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I am not sure how you were bullied, I can't help a whole lot. If it gets physical you need to speak with a counselor. On the first day you must walk into that school like you own it. I don't mean in a snobby way, but with head up and shoulders back. The first time someone says something rude to you, like hey look doofus is back, just say to them politely, I'm sorry I didn't hear what you said-- this will either cause them to back down or make them repeat it ,which makes them sound really stupid. If they repeat it then you can say" I can see you've really grown up! If you stand your ground, they should leave you alone.
2007-06-28 21:07:42 · answer #2 · answered by sbyldy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even look at them! They don't matter! If it is physical go stright to the councelor or have your parents come there. And they don't have the right to make anybody feel like that. God will smite them one day so you just go and get your education. One piece of advise if you are confronted do not, !! I MEAN DO NOT !! cower down EVEN THE FIRST TIME! That's where it all starts. I didn't say you had to exert yourself or act all tough just don't back down. JUST LOOK THEM RIGHT IN THE EYE "CAN'T YOU FIND SOMETHING BETTER TO DO WITH YOUR TIME THAT BULLY PEOPLE?" Ha Ha that will certainly stun them! The las thing they WANT is to look bad in front of anyone so if you are going to talk back then they will be afraid they will get laughed at! TRUST ME.. 99% of the time they will leave you alone after that. You would be having fun don't let them intimidate you, you to young and will be around for 70 more years, they will find someone else to pick on as soon as they find out it won't work on you! I know I had the same issues for years cause I didn't have nice clothes, was small, didn't know a lot of things but I got so tired of living scared that one morning I just woke up and decided NO MORE!!!! I just walked up to my bully and said I'm not afraid of you any more & I'm not taking your crap so lets just get it over right now! If you want to fight me then lets just do it right now." EVERYBODY JUST LOOK AT HER SHE DIDN'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY. She never did it again!!!! That was the 9th grade. TRUE STORY!!! Another tip is to find someone else who is afraid you will be able to spot them and make friends with them. You will stand together and never be alone. Stay away from the upper crowd they are sometimes mean.
2007-06-28 17:09:03 · answer #3 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bullying is not acceptable what-so-ever. How have you been bullied? Was it physical abuse or verbal abuse? I suggest you talk to a counselor about the situation; if you don't do anything it might get worse.
Do you know why these kids pick on you? Is there anybody that you can call your friend? One of my dearest friends was bullied in middle school, but because we had a good group of friends, she was able to overcome the bullying and do well in school.
I really think it's best for you to talk to someone about it. If your parents don't listen, talk to a school counselor, and he/she will make sure your parents listen.
Good luck!
2007-06-28 17:11:15 · answer #4 · answered by Dots 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All types of bullying--physical and verbal--are considered harrassment and is against the law. For those who think that bullying is just something you have to learn to deal with, don't realize the emotional and psychological toll it can take. Bullying can even affect your academic performance. Get your parents involved. The school has a legal obligation to insure that everyone--including you-- feels safe at school.
2007-07-05 17:20:00 · answer #5 · answered by lightningelemental 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go to your guidance counselor. They will help you with these bullies. If it continues, get the police involved. They can give you an order of protection or, at the least, scare the crap out of these kids. Whatever you do, don't handle this by yourself. Middle school is a tough time and kids are cruel.
2007-07-04 12:46:44 · answer #6 · answered by dmunchow1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remain calm and try not to think about it. This is just a phase in life which I think almost everyone goes through. It will pass. Just focus on your education and ignore the kids. If you pay attention and let their bullying bother you, the bullying will only get worse.
2007-06-28 21:29:40 · answer #7 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can relate. I am going to high school, it'll be my first year (freshmen) I also got made fun of. what you should do is ignore them and try to avoid them as much as possible. oh yeah my parents are also strict about my grades...so, good luck
2007-06-28 17:11:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should try to make other friends,but if that doesn't work go to one of your teachers you are very close to and talk to them about it.I am sure you will do fine.Good luck to you!
2007-06-28 17:10:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't bring a water gun that looks like a real gun just ignore them
and they'll leave you alone because they'll find it no fun that you do nothing they prey on kids how react
2007-06-28 17:11:37 · answer #10 · answered by kingshanethe3rd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋