in public and nobody knows they're a guy. i would like to do this when i get older and move out. i'm only 14 right now and i love to crosdress, mostly in heels. nobody knows about it. i know my parents wouldnt support it. should i tell one ofmy friends who are girls, would they support it. if some one told you they liked to crossdress, would be supportive or not like them any more? its really stressfull not talking to anyone about it so if someone could contact me, it would be nice.
2007-06-28 16:26:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
There are plenty of crossdressers out there who walk around in public and nobody even knows they're guys. You're still young, so take your time and enjoy dressing up like a girl, a teenage girl.
2007-07-01 17:04:56 · answer #1 · answered by J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, you should wait until your older to see if things change for you.
If you are sure, tell your friends, ones that you trust, see if they can help you out. I have seen a lady, the only thing that I could see different from a woman was her Adams Apple.
There is drag that is meant to look over the top, and gaudy. Then there is drag that is made to look like a woman. I think its something you have to work at and own it. As Rue Paul says "you've got to make it work...bitc-h!" ( I may have gotten that a little wrong but you get the idea.)
2007-06-28 23:39:13 · answer #2 · answered by Paddington Bear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi I too am a crossdresser and know where your coming from I recently told someone in Florida who I met on an internet game
when I told her she was very supportive ,
You will feel alot happier once you get it off your chest my advice to you is dont tell anyone close to your network of freinds or family find someone on the internet and confess to them thats what i done and felt great !
2007-06-29 05:13:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have an ideal of what you are feeling right now but, even if you get the change to dress up as a girl, it serves no proposes. It's not worth it unless if you want to trick your friends or something.
I was not a crossdresser and never will become one. Live your life anyways you want but, I don't have to agree the lifestyle of this crossdressing of yours.
2007-07-02 16:31:12 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of info on the net about cross dressing, you should check it out. Perhaps you will find something to help you understand your self better.
It would be great if you could share your secret with someone but be careful, teenagers can be cruel.
Perhaps just wearing lingerie or getting your ears pierced could satisfy your desires. Maybe some counseling from your doctor or someone at school could help you understand what you are feeling and help you deal with it.
2007-06-29 11:45:51 · answer #5 · answered by Bombi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are hundreds if not thousands of cross dresser who walk around and pass as their chosen roll.
There are people who do it as a hobby, there are people who do it because they feel it is a part of their nature, there are people who just do it for kicks.
It is far easier to pass when you are younger since your secondary sex characteristics are not as developed.
Now then understand that going out in public it is not one of the safest things to do, cross dressers often get beat up if they are discovered out in public and there are people who make it their business to spot cross dressers.
Also 14 is a bit young to try to go public. On the other hand if you have a friend you can trust often makes life much easier to understand. I know many cross dressers who did dress up with the help of a good girlfriend, they borrowed close and learned makeup tips. Of course this has to be a person you really trust since they will have the power to out you at any time.
Anyway life is to be enjoyed and contrary to some things it is something you can get away with when your younger since if you get caught people will just assume it is a phase and you will grow out of it. Of course the funny thing is that if you do experiment with it you may find out that is just a phase and something your grow out of.
2007-06-28 23:56:10 · answer #6 · answered by Kith D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you should give it some time and see how things are. Not because you're young, but because you may develop a new mindset about things and it would be better to gather your thoughts. If you think your friends are mature enough to handle the situation and you can trust them tell them. But parents are forever so like I said, think a lot about it first.
2007-06-28 23:34:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u have "feminine" physical features it wont be a problem. for comedy at my expense, I dated a guy once and while we were walking around the city another guy commented on how pretty "her" eyes were. No he wasnt wearing full on heals and dress. but he did have women's pants and a "feminine" shirt and long hair and panties (did not know that before dating him). I never called him back but thats cuz i like my guys to actually look like guys. If it is sounds and looks like a woman, it is a woman and vice versa.
2007-06-28 23:53:26 · answer #8 · answered by maxpowr90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa!
No name,, proceed with caution with this .
Talking about it with a close friend will help, do you have any that you can totally trust?
Are you gay or straight?
Have fun with it but just be cautious till your older, and Yeah I have met a cd that was totally passable, but he was a petite asian guy,,
Good luck
2007-06-28 23:35:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
|I do know several transvestites who are able to pass as women. I have never tried very hard to to this. When you are a bit older you can join various transvestite organisations who will be able to advise on such things
2007-07-02 18:34:50 · answer #10 · answered by Maid Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋