sometimes i feel like i have no purpose in life...?

Question

sometimes i just feel so down about myself... my hair is too frizzy and curly i have to attempt to straighten it everyday, my face is covered with mountains of pimples that i try to die down with various creams, my eyebrows are sort of bushy, my nose is too big and it has a bump on it, my thighs are like sasuges, my feet are too big, im too tall for any of the guys in my grade, im not so outgoing, i dont have lots of guy friends, im very sensitive, and sometimes i feel like im afraid to call my friends up to come have a sleepover because im so ugly... but people say im beautiful in everyway... why do people have to lie... sometimes i just feel as if everyone hates me, i just cry and cry and cry

Answer 1

Deer, beauties is in your inner beauty, not just the physical appearance, so, u don't have to listen to what the people say, just do what do u think is the best and the most right for u. Be confident! And u will have more hope in your life!

Good luck!

Answer 2

Please don't feel that way. These people tell you these things because they care about you. Don't ever pay to much attention to the outside it'll crush you. Try to make your hair work for you not the other way around. Acne goes away it's a hormone that's released when puberty hits. It's not caused by chocolate or anything like that so eat some icecream or somthing to make yourself feel good when your down. Ice cream's a feel good food because milk has a chemical that boosts the way you feel. Don't be afraid to invite your friends over. They are your friends because you're you. They don't care about how you look. Try joining a few clubs or start your own and don't be afraid to do so. Get some friends to join some with you. Your feet are good for swimming. Girls meet their adult hight faster than boys so it's okay to be taller than a lot of the boys in your class. To get rid of acne and to help get rid of the "sausage legs" go to the beach once a week and get some sun. Get in the water so the salt can help dry the oils on your face. Swim a bit to excersice too. Being sensative can come in handy. Use it to your advantage. Ask your mom to take you to get your eyebrows waxed or just for a day at a local spa.

Answer 3

Did you ever take into account the possibility that your friends are right about you being beautiful and you are wrong in this matter.

Could you be looking at Paris Hilton as having the "ideal figure" (she doesn't) and that your "thighs are like sausages" only by comparison. Paris is 'pretty' because she thinks that she is pretty. Attitude goes a long way in appearance.

The pimples will eventually clear up. During the time of their 'invasion' it is normal to be sensitive about them. So is everyone else around you who also has acne (I can just hear you now saying 'but mine is worse').

Hang in there and watch all of the Maury shows where the person ignored in high school becomes the beauty.

And while you are at that, avoid the cults where you are told that the leader loves you or that the god they worship loves you. They love to prey on those who are down.

You are important for your own sake. Smile and you may be surprised.

Answer 4

i know that you do not want to hear about sucking it up and dealing with it because it's normal etc. so i'm going to try my best to help you in the way that you want.

alright. follow these instructions carefully and you will soon be outgoing and confident. dont worry. there is nothing in here about changing who you are as a person.

1. APPEARANCE: call up your friends and ask them to come shopping with you. you are going to pick up anything off of the rack that you like and try it on. i dont care if you dont think that it will fit you. try it anyways. ask your friends for constructive critisism. once you have left the mall or whatever with an entire wardrobe full of beautiful, perfect fitting clothes. you must go to the drug stor or wherever and have them help you pick out the best kinds of makeup for your skin. also try natural concealer to help those blemishes of yours. you may, if you wish, go to the hair styalist as well and have him or her give you the best look ever.

2. you will wear these clothes and makeup to school every day for a week. watch people's reactions as you meet them for the first time after your new makeover.

3. CONFIDANCE: by now you will be feeling pretty good about yourself. but meekness is not allowed. surely there is a guy that you like? ask him out. call him, IM him, do whatever it takes. ask this boy out. who cares how tall you are? most models are abnormaly tall. if this boy is idiotic enough to refuse you you will move on to another, ask him out a couple of days afterward (you don't want to seem desperate.)

4. HAPPINESS: pick an activity that you love, one that you really want to be doing. throw your heart into it. enjoy yourself and those pimples will go away. belmishes are mostly caused by stress

RULES:
1. if per chance you are embarassed at all, ever, laugh it off. laughing throws people off gaurd and tends to stop them from laughing at you.
2. try to get the correct amount of sleep and food and stuff. the healthier you are the better you look and act
3. habve fun but if you encounter a bump in the roaad go over it, not around it because it will make you a stronger person.

Answer 5

for the hair...use a different conditioner or a dab of gel each day...dont try to straigten your curls lots of people have beautiful curly hair..you can too..pimples...well dont we all have them....go to a facial doctor and he will clear you right up... eyebrows. get a waxer and scissors and shape them..a ton of people have the bone in their nose that perks a bit..your thighs are strong honey NOT sausages...your feeet are fine!!...TOO TALL? hun there is only one thing to do about that ....go after the older ones.. be outgoing whats the point in bieng shy...how are people supost to learn about the person you are if you dont even let them in?...guy friends...who cares they will come to you trust me! there is somebody for everybody...in case you didnt kno GIRLS WERE MADE TO BE SENSITIVE! girl people arent lying when ther tell you you are beautiful im sure you are,,,call up your friends because they do love you...ask them to give you a makeover if u want to... have fun with it....everyone doesnt hate you.....dont cry unless there tears of joy cuz you have soo much to be haooy about....it truely is what is inside that counts

~god bless hun~

Answer 6

You are probably your worst Critic. Go to the Salon and get a new hair cut that you can manage. There are alot of nice looking females in the world with curly hair. Try going shopping for some new clothes to compliment the Hair Cut, and start exercising to firm your body up. Start smiling more, and learn to Love yourself.. You can do it...

Answer 7

Ask any adult you know and they will tell you ,they also felt the same way you do now ,have you ever heard of the ugly duckling becoming a swan? Beauty is only skin deep, Be happy with what you got remember some others might not be so lucky l.o.l.

Answer 8

Voluminous hair... thick eyebrows... exaggerated features... tall... You've just described a model. As far as "guy friends" go, I don't have many, either. And if people call you beautiful, OBVIOUSLY you are! Don't be down on yourself - there's no point. If you're happy, not only do you shine, but you make other under confident people happy, too.

Smile!
- Lauren

Answer 9

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Answer 10

im sorry u feel that way but everybody has a purpose in life!!!and u dont need 2 beanorexic have straight perfect hair a small nose and a clear face 2 be pretty everybodys pretty in their own way!!:]tips-try using moose and hairspray to take out the frizz instead of curling it and useclean cg makeup