How could i get a social life? I have friends, but most doesn't share same interests with me. Actually I'm not sure what i'm interested at. I wanted to have fun, but I have hard time talking to people and keep conversation going. Any advice finding a person that I could easily talk to? I know this is sad. lol.
2007-06-28 14:54:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Aaronsmith- no and i'll kill myself if i did that all day. It's all right game through. This name is like 6 years ago when i was 11.
2007-06-28 15:03:45 · update #1
actually, you don't need to do that...just make your pressure out of your shoulder a bit one day at a time....and...be aware of the anxieties that have made you nervous, uneasy...this way, you could feel more relaxed and could participate to the conversation with your friends...
2007-06-28 15:05:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have friends, but only one truly good friend. She's like my sister more than anything else. I usually hang out with her, and if I'm not with her I'm by myself. Some people are just like us. I'm not really into the shallow, female gossip/party scene so the other friends I mentioned are not very close ones. You need to find someone you trust completely and can have fun with. I know it's hard, but the only way to find this person is to be more open and talk to new people.
2007-06-28 23:40:49 · answer #2 · answered by Saritah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI! I too have no social life. I am around people all day long yet I am friends with none of them. My time spent away from them is time spent alone. Carrying on conversations is difficult but remember that people love to talk about themselves so if your conversation hits a rough point just ask something about them. The way to find people you find easy to talk to is simply to talk to more people.
2007-06-28 22:18:19 · answer #3 · answered by Sark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well like you I don't have a social life either but, unlike you I don't have any friends period! I haven't had any ever since the sixth grade because throughout elementary school, I discovered how fake people could be. They'll be smiling in your face like they're your friends one minute and then the next, they're embarrassing you in front of the entire class! I decided from that point on, that I will no longer have friends. I'm pretty happy with my family members. They feel the void perfectly and I have to admit that I'm pretty good at entertaining myself! I can always find something to do alone. For instance, I like to read books and magazines, listen to my favorite music, play video games, go on Yahoo Answers and give people good advice, and most of all, I like to shop! To be honest, I not that good at talking to people either. It's like one of my biggest fears or more like the ultimate test of my life. It's funny though because I'm really good at talking to people on Yahoo Answers. I guess it's because I don't have to deal with them face to face. I really do care about their concerns. I try my best to give them the best answers possible and I get mad when I can' t help them and have to leave their question. In the end though, I can honestly say that, Yahoo Answers and the people who contribute to it have been one of the greatest things that ever happened to me. I don't know if I really gave you any advice because I was mostly talking about myself but, I'm glad that I was able to share my story with you and thanks for listening! I really hope that you can find someone who you can not only talk to but share the same interests as well. Good luck on your quest!
2007-06-28 22:50:26 · answer #4 · answered by Oh, it's like that? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, hell with that altogether...i was a loner at high school and now i still dont have a social life, but the thing is i changed and am happier...there was a time at the first semester of college i started having 'friends' but their conversation was always gossip. so i ended up being alone again, but what makes me happier is that by being alone, i discovered my passion and had no choice but be comfortable with who i am...once you gain that self security, you will no longer be intimdated or wish that person likes me pressure...if the conversations dont work, its ok. typical talks have breaks in them. stop thinking youre being evaluated. enjoy being yourself and share it with the person youre speaking with. i dont have a social life, but im now more comfortable and confident around people. i achieved that confidence by not being insecure of my 'aloneness'... besides, Real friends are FEW.
2007-06-28 22:16:06 · answer #5 · answered by vincent m 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey i got the same problem just go out at night play poker with some people at a pub or some thing.
2007-06-28 21:58:30 · answer #6 · answered by Nicholas F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me too ......i moved to fl and been here for 2 years and still havent met anyone to hang out with i had many friends back home. and all i want is to meet some friends and go out
2007-06-28 21:59:53 · answer #7 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to be someone you're not. Just do what you enjoy doing, and eventually you will meet some people while you're doing the activities you enjoy.
2007-06-28 21:57:45 · answer #8 · answered by futureteacher0613 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey hey hey now nothing wrong with D&D though Vampire the masquerade is better. ;)
why don't you just talk to people on here. a lot of us are really intersting.
2007-06-28 22:15:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decide what you like and find a group
2007-06-28 21:56:57 · answer #10 · answered by fran j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋