teen pregnancy [[help]]?

Question

I'm only 14 and I think I'm pregnant.Yeah i know I'm young, but I think that everything happens for a reason.I dont know what to do.I'm scared to tell my parents.I dont know how I'm going to raise the baby.I have no money.I cant get a job.I want the best for the baby.
So if anyone has any advise or tips please let me know.
Thank you!

I also want to finish school and go to college.But I how could I do that with a baby?

Answer 1

One step at a time. You are freaking out and you don't even know for sure. Take a pregnancy test. Do you know anyone that can drive you to the store? Definitley find out for sure before freaking out!

Answer 2

Tell your parents.

Make your decision if you want to 1) Keep the baby 2) Put your baby up for adoption or 3) Abortion

Now I don't think you should have an abortion because you need to learn how to live with your conciquences and since you don't have a job and you are still just a teen in school, being pregnant really won't disrupt your life. However, raising a baby will. That's why you should look at adoption instead of abortion. But if you want to raise your baby that too can be done.

You need to talk everything over with your parents about how you are going to still going to finish high school and go to college. But you are going to have to step it up and get a job the day you are old enough! No more weekends with your friends... it'll be weekends and long nights at work!

I'm just about to turn 18 and I just graduated high school and I'm 23 weeks pregnant. I'm about to go to a quick 3 week school to become a certified nurses aid so I can get a dependable job and save up for my baby, apartment, and future schooling to become a Medical Assistant. It can be done.

Good luck.

Answer 3

Ok. First thing, find out if you're really pregnant. Take a test don't just guess and freak out. When you are 14 your periods can be really erratic. If it turns out that you are indeed pregnant, you have to tell your parents, as difficult as that may seem. You are 14, they will eventually notice, and I know they would appreciate your honesty and after they react, they will most likely help. Since you said you want what's best for the baby, I assume you don't want to have an abortion (which would, legally done, require your parent's permission). I believe that since you have big plans for your future, you should consider adoption. You can't raise it yourself, at your age, and, unless your parents want to practically raise it for you, then you won't be able to enjoy all the things you want, and give your baby enough time. Let people who are mentally and financially ready for a baby give this child a good life. Bottom line, if you really are pregnant, talk it out with your parents.

Answer 4

Oh someone that thought sex was just for fun ! Well, sweetie if in fact you are pregnant it's time to grow up fast... I would say it would be best to give the baby up for adoption. At 14 the only thing that "happened for a reason" is that you/partner didn't use the right kind of birth control. So, I would go to a free clinic and get a test. I hope for your sake that it's negative and that you learn a valuable lesson from this.. Sex isn't a game or for fun or just for kicks.. It's serious and the consequences should be taken seriously...In this day and age and all the birth control out there teenagers shouldn't be getting pregnant ! I get tired of all the teens on here asking about sex and not using proper birth control... Pulling out isn't birth control...! Be responsible... Good luck and I hope that you aren't pregnant I'm tired of working for you.....

Answer 5

Think about this real good before you do something you will regret the rest of your life. First of all you must tell your parents. If my 14yr old told me that I would want them to have the baby and I would help raise it until my daughter finished school. If for some reason you wouldn't want the baby they might consider adopting it because it is their Grandbaby. You need to get help with bills etc for your pregnancy. It's very expensive to raise a baby believe me so please tell your parents and see what they say.

Answer 6

Step 1: Take a pregnancy test
Step 2: If positive, tell your parents
Step 3. Make a rational decision together
Step 4: Never leave the house again

Answer 7

The best thing for you to do at this point is to tell your parents. You need to go to a clinic as well and get what information you can on all of your options so you will know what is out there. You have no idea at this age.

Answer 8

hun you need to talk to your parents soon. they will help you decide what is best for your baby. maybe your parents will help you raise him/her until you are finished with school. or perhaps you can give the baby up for adoption. there are SO many couples who cannot have children of their own and would love to have a child. good luck!

Answer 9

I agree, you should take a test as soon as you possibly can. You will have to tell your parents though because at your age, you can't hide it. You will need permission to get an abortion. If you don't have an abortion, they will figure it out pretty soon. So, if you are pregnant, no matter what decision you make, you will have to tell a parent. Also, don't be ashamed if abortion is the answer you choose. A lot of people out there will try to guilt you out of it, but it is ultimately your decision and anyone who tries to dissuade you from it, is not respecting you, they are trying to make your decision for you. So if you are pregnant, make sure you fully understand all the options.

Answer 10

First find out if you are, and if you are you need to talk to your parents, will they be happy about it no, but they should be there for you after they settle down. If you are you need their support and help. This would make our life tougher but not impossible communication is the key. As stated they will at first be mad only because of their love for you but you will need their support. Good luck to you remember talk.