2007-06-28 11:06:44 · 26 answers · asked by reeses 3 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
7th grade is way too young to be having sex!
2007-06-28 11:20:17 · answer #1 · answered by Corey D. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no magic way to know when you are ready for sex. BUT there is a for sure way to know you are NOT ~ if you don't want to, or feel pressured IN ANY WAY then you are not ready to have sex.
Say 'no' and mean it. You have that right, and the right to your own body.
If your bf cares about you, he will not want to force you to do anything you do not want to.
If you have sex just to please someone else, you will not be able to give yourself freely and with your whole heart.
Sorry, at this time, it does not sound as if you are ready to go ahead.
Take care and best wishes :-)
2007-06-28 11:17:14 · answer #2 · answered by thing55000 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is something that is worth waiting for. If he is pressuring you to do something you are not ready for, then just say no.
Look at it like this, most guys will use that age old line "if you love you would have sex with me."
that is a load of crap. if he loves you then he will be willing to wait until you are ready.
If he doesn't wait, then he wasn't meant to be, if you do it before you are ready then you will be giving that first experience to someone who will only cause you pain later anyway.
Teenage boys can be very persistent when it comes to sex, but you know yourself and respect yourself. don't give in and if he still pushes the issue, it is ok to break up. he will only bully you in other aspects of your relationship later.
please, PLEASE wait until you are ready, not when your boyfriend is ready.
2007-06-28 11:15:18 · answer #3 · answered by † Seeker of Truth † 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, do not...I repeat, do not let him talk you into it. You will do it when you are good and ready. If you are not ready right now, he'll just have to wait. Tough!!
Just remember this. Once you do it for the first time, you will never be able to redo the "first time" ever again. Don't screw that up by having sex when you're not ready.
2007-06-28 11:16:04 · answer #4 · answered by Scott D 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
7th grade is a year of transition for most people...your not even fully developed or ready for that kind of commitment. If you are not ready then you tell him that and if he has a problem with it he is a loser and he don't deserve you.
2007-06-28 11:51:01 · answer #5 · answered by Desiree D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u r NOT ready for sex. tell him that ur not ready & to stop taking this relationship so fast. ur only...what, 12 or 13? thats not the right age.
2007-06-28 16:14:54 · answer #6 · answered by graceee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are right. you aren't ready and should not do it becuase of him. take a step back and look at the situation. you know its not right. tell him you aren't ready and won't be for a while. ask him why he keeps presuring you to do it. make sure that this isn't the only reason he is in the relationship. good luck.
2007-06-28 11:12:24 · answer #7 · answered by * 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
oh my gosh you are never ready to have sex until you are married! think of the things that could happen if you do it and you are not married!! we just had a health class over this and my teacher was all over it, stressing to say no! you have to think of the consequences to this! this happens even if you are not married! there are over 35 STD's and women are able to get all of them! (men only 4) most of them you wont even know you have because there are no known symptoms!! remember: there is NO SAFE SEX! even with condoms!! if your boyfriend keeps at you about this sex stuff then break up with him!! he is not even worth it! u gotta trust me on this! i've seen and i know example!!
please take this advice!!!!
2007-06-28 11:15:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell this guy If he really loves you then stop hassaling u. You will know when ur ready when u don't have to ask anyone if ur ready. Confusing? I know but its true.
2007-06-28 11:17:18 · answer #9 · answered by Gteen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question. You're not ready for sex. If he is being pushy, then you wouldn't want to have sex with him anyway.
2007-06-28 11:22:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋