Is it really okay when the guy you like flirts with other girls sometimes....i mean i understand that its normal...but...i mean i personally cant flirt with other guys unless i have an interest in them, and i dont have an interest in anyone except for my boyfriend..so i dont flirt....does that mean somethings wrong with me? Or are guys reasons for flirting just different to girls...or at least mine?
2007-06-28 10:40:11 · 17 answers · asked by Jaded 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Thats awful, im really sorry, LoveOfMyLife. :( You deserve to be treated way better than that, my dear.
2007-06-29 10:12:17 · update #1
I think a little innocent flirting is alright. There is nothing wrong with you its just not something you are comfortable with. Yes the man I am in love with has flirted and at first it bothered me but now it doesnt, when you love someone you trust them.
I do flirt but it is all in fun,most know where my heart is. Dont ever feel like something is wrong with you for how you feel, all your feeling are valid
2007-06-28 10:44:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love my ex, and even when I was with him I did flirt with other guys, not to his face though! Or at least, I didn't mean to. He flirts with other women too, but actually goes as far as to make comments about how good they look and stuff. It used to bother me, but now it doesn't 'cause I know he can't help it. He has Asperger's Syndrome so he just doesn't know when to cut it.
Sometimes guys and girls flirt with other people to feel better about themselves, or 'cause they are insecure or something. I am not sure. Does your boyfriend flirt with other girls?
2007-06-28 12:51:23 · answer #2 · answered by Bunny Boiler 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Some people are just naturally flirty by nature-girls & guys. I do think that flirting is ok to a degree..if it really starts to bother you, tell him. If he knows how it makes you feel he should think about it. Good luck & never, ever let anyone make you feel like your feelings are wrong..keep your chin up kiddo :D
2007-06-28 10:47:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is up to you. Some guys just flirt a lot. But if it is right in front of you and he does it consciously then it is kind of disrespectful to you. If you don't like it you shouldn't have to tolerate it. He should understand if he truly cares about you.
2007-06-28 10:43:51 · answer #4 · answered by joejacks 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is totally okay unless he is saying something sexually inviting. It is natural to flirt and even healthy, but it is also normal if you don't want to flirt either. Everyone is different and just as long as he is not being sexual with others, I think it is innocent. Men are different and sometimes you love it and sometimes you hate it. :)
We have to love them, afterall, they are just men.
2007-06-28 10:59:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just overly friendly and they want people to like them so it comes off as flirting...
Or they really like the attention they can get by flirting...
2007-06-28 10:43:43 · answer #6 · answered by DeeDee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong with you.
i dont know how your bf flirts, so i cant comment much.
but i can speak from my own experience, i hosted a party once at home then a friend of mine tagged along with her one of her coworker, of course my bf is there and i can sense the flirting here and there, you know, simple comments from my bf like, "you look like my ex", "you can drink as much as you want, i can drive you home, or i can take you home" blah blah blah...and it really ruined my night, we had a big fight after that.
i just dont see the reason for him to do those things especially that i am around, for me its being disrespectful
2007-06-28 23:13:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is he your man? No? Then he will (and ought to) flirt to his hearts content. If you're WATCHING him flirt with others and you're not in a relationship, then WHY aren't you FLIRTING BACK?
If you are in a relationship with him, then WHY arent you doing more to make him WANT to flirt WITH YOU? My advice is make him take notice of you. NOTHING SLUTTY, just find a way to shine that casts you in the best light and he'll have to take notice... if you're kinda cute.
If he's flirting in front of your face and you're in a relationship SURPRISE SURPRISE!!! YOU ARE A JUMPOFF.
If you're not cute, then I have no answers for you. LORD US MEN ARE SHALLOW... oh well! Hey, is that my brand new issue of KING magazine in the mail??? IT IS! SEE YA!
end communication!
LEx L.
2007-06-28 10:52:23 · answer #8 · answered by Lex L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if the guy is your boyfriend then he should not be flirting with other girls. he should be committed to you and not be interested in other girls. it is ok for him to talk with other girls but not to be flirting or hitting on them. that shows that he is not satisfied with you and is looking for someone else.
2007-06-28 10:48:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The thrill of the chase is often sweeter than the catch.
That's why we flirt.
2007-06-28 10:42:56 · answer #10 · answered by ddpk_bd 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋