okay well scince its summer me n my friends want to go to the pool n beach n stuff, but i am very flat chested so i am im ashamed to wear a suit. I feel so...ugly..in one. and its even harder when one of my friends is a total B n says "u have none hahahaha" any advice?!?!?
2007-06-28 09:24:06 · 11 answers · asked by Citygal 2 in Sports ➔ Swimming & Diving
Hey girl, don't be ashamed! Since you are smaller upstairs you can wear virtually ANYTHING! String bikinis are always good and halters and bandeaus help create curves. Victoria's Secret sells suits with padding but my advice is to be proud of what you've got and don't worry about it.
Someone posted that boys like all kinds of girls and they are right. Your small boobs may be just what catches someone's eye! And you're probably still growing so chances are they'll eventually come along. And if they don't, it doesn't matter, you won't have to worry about them sagging when you get old!!!
Get a suit you feel comfortable in and go have fun with some new friends who aren't jerks. You chest size should be the last thing you have to worry about and the last they they have to comment on!!!
2007-06-28 09:43:29 · answer #1 · answered by Kristy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest some friends who don't say things like that to you...that is very rude. Don't worry about what you look like...I wish that I was flat chested, but unfortunately there aren't any easy ways that we can change the way we are built. Fine a cute suit, and go out there and don't be ashamed of yourself! If/when your friend says that to you think of a comeback that you could say to her to make her not want to say that to you- I'm sorry that some people have to be so rude.
2007-06-29 23:57:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey don't sweat it. I don't have anything either, but all my friends do. don't worry about it. soon they'll whin about how big and sagging there's are and are samll and perky. there time will come. just where a swim suit sometimes some swim suits make you look like you have more than really you do. that happened with me. my friend jokes about it with me. but your friend sounds like she's teasing you. also if a guy talkes to you. you'll know he's talking to "you" and not to your chest. hope this helps.
2007-06-28 17:35:26 · answer #3 · answered by swimmergirl247 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just try and feel better about yourself and don't listen to what your friend says, have a great time at the party and wear a bathing suit u like! ^^ An about your friend if she says things like taht maybe she was kidding and if not you shouldn't have a friend who says things bad about you!
2007-06-28 16:33:28 · answer #4 · answered by XxAngelicAngelxX 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could use some better friends. Don't worry; guys like all kinds of different women, flat or not. You just go out there and be yourself and have fun. Be a better person than your "friend" by accepting yourself for who you are and accepting them for who they are without judgement.
2007-06-28 16:32:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
try a cute bandeau top they work best on smaller chests and dont let your friends kill your self confidence. im sure you are beautiful and would look great in a cute two piece. they have bathing suit tops that have padding in them if you want to try something like that. stay confident in yourself happy shopping
2007-06-28 16:33:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your friend says that??? thats some nice friends but don't be ashamed of the skin your in. theirs alot of girls that are flat.
2007-06-28 16:27:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Get some socks . . . ball them up . . . and you are good to go . . . and yeah usually the girls who "mature" first are the ones who end up pregnant at 16 . . . so you should feel lucky
2007-06-28 16:33:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
find new friends......shes obviously needs some help of her own i would worry about her more than myself
2007-06-28 16:35:17 · answer #9 · answered by bri89 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uhh.. i donno; wear a bikini one with padding? or ruffles or something.
no need to feel ashamed. its better to be flat than to have saggy packs & back problems when you're older hahaha.
be proud of your body. who cares what they think? (:
2007-06-28 16:33:49 · answer #10 · answered by *bbong 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋