reposting this with different clues...
So I'm in summer school taking a math class to catch up from when I was sick and in my class is this really cute guy.. nothing special but cute... anyways he's sitting at this table with 5 really really pretty girls (clue one that he is gay... gay guys hangout with really hot girls). Anyways he's sitting there laughing with them and we sorda but not really glanced at eachother a few times... he might of caught me looking at him... so math class begin and I realize during it he starts really sorda flirting with this girl and I was like oh crap... great he's straight... but then I thought about it and I flirt like that with my friends that are girls too, so maybes theres hope... anyways he really seems like my type (lookwise, and from what his personality gave off... he isnt flaming or anything... like I doubt he lies rainbows and stuff which is a plus) any pointers figuring it out... or start talking to him? Think he's gay?
2007-06-28 09:10:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Okay... extra details... just some of his mannerisms are gay like and his voice has a hint of gay to it... and the way he sorda moved... when I spotted him that's when my gaydar went off.
And I know there is no way to tell if someones gay or straight as some gay guys act incredibly straight and some straight guys act feminine... I was just asking your opinion... I did noticed he does what I do... when he had to answer questions aloud his voice got a little deeper, but when talking to friends it was alittle lighter.
I only got two more classes... I don't know what to do.
2007-06-28 09:10:14 · update #1
No he's not
2007-06-28 09:14:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are higher that he is straight than gay. You will not know til you get to know him better and you will take a real risk if you oiut yourself to him without knowing where he is at. It sounds like you are failry young like 15 or so and if that is the case, I suspect your gaydar needs some fine tuning yet. If I was gambling, I would bet he is not. Good luck in your search!
2007-06-28 09:21:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him if he would like to go get something to eat after class. That way you could be with him one on one without the girls distracting him.
If he turns out to be "straight" ,- it will just be two "buds" kicking it together during lunch. If he's gay and is interested in you, he'll make the next move. If he's gay and not interested, you should be able to pick up on that by his demeanor
2007-06-28 09:22:59 · answer #3 · answered by susandiane311 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a gay guy with a lot of wishful thinking--talking about you of course. Good lord, talk to the guy and get to know him before jumping to conclusions and having delusions.
2007-06-28 10:50:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not enough evidence that he's gay. You need to get to know him more. Sit next to him
2007-06-28 09:15:39 · answer #5 · answered by me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing you mentioned is a sure sign, but try talking to him about current issues and bring up the gay marriage issue and see what he thinks,
2007-06-28 09:15:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not know, you must take a chance and find out yourself.
2007-06-28 09:55:21 · answer #7 · answered by kanei 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋