I was seeing this psychatrist of 11 years. He would even take my calls at night and talk to me for a hour. My husband had me so emotionally battered and without my doctor I couldn't have made it. I left my husband in April, finally. My doctor passed away in May. I never got the chance to say good-bye, thank him for hours of listens without charging me, and most important that I finally made it out. He was my bestfriend. Do you think he is looking down and knows that finally I'm okay?
2007-06-28 08:03:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
there are several people i have worked with over the years...and while i don't know how everyone worked out i do know a great deal of them...it is wonderful to know...but when working with someone...you know how much you have given and how much is needed...i think he probably knew before he died that you were making it out and were going to be okay...i don't know if there is an afterlife thing or not but i am sure he knew before he left...
2007-06-28 08:22:54 · answer #1 · answered by Daisy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must take comfort in knowing that he was helpful to you, and that he had to have known that. He probably IS looking down upon you. But don't rest on that. Use the strength he gave you, and pass it on to those you care about. He would be proud of you for sharing his knowledge and his patience. Just the fact that you're on here, asking this question is a powerful thing. God bless you.
2007-06-28 15:12:44 · answer #2 · answered by flip4it 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! Anyone who dedicates their lives to helping others I believe have spirits and souls that live on after their bodies have given out. You never know, he may just be your guardian angel. I'm sure he knew how much you appreciated his help and I'm sure he had faith in you and your ability to get through all the trauma you sustained from an abusive man.. I"m sure he is very proud of you and you should be proud of yourself also. Good luck to you.
2007-06-28 17:29:48 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love to hear that there are people like that out there...
He sounds like he was quite special- very giving.
Since he passed away after you left your husband, I'm sure he knew you were okay long before he died. It sounds like you have been getting "okay" for a long time.
Here's to your future!
2007-06-28 15:12:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think how many other peoples lives he impacted in and out of his career. Be thankful that he gave you the strength to leave your abusive relationship and start anew!
2007-06-28 15:10:51 · answer #5 · answered by love bomb 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I do. Maybe he is a guardian angel that helped give you the strength to make it through your trials.
2007-06-28 15:08:23 · answer #6 · answered by # 4 due in September! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yep he sure does...Your new life started in April and now its time to do something and make it your best..Find that right man in your life, go out with your female friends, go to other countries, have fun...enjoy life.
2007-06-28 15:09:45 · answer #7 · answered by nepgertje 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i hope he is . im sure he knew how much you appreciated his help when he was alive. he sounds like a very special person. yoou were lucky to have him in your life. remember the good times. best of luck in the future
2007-06-28 15:12:40 · answer #8 · answered by dottie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he does sweetie. Maybe he'll be the person who greets you someday
2007-06-28 16:16:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋