I already have 2 kids, and love them to death, but am now at uni, getting a good qualification, hoping to become a primary teacher...but my b/f wants babies...
i already have 2 kids from a previous relationship, and dont want anymore, but am starting to feel broody...what do i do, coz i dont wanna sacrifice my career???
2007-06-28 07:30:51 · 8 answers · asked by ? 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
What about completing your course so you have the qualification and maybe then if you feel the time is right taking a break to have a child
2007-06-28 07:40:25 · answer #1 · answered by mumoffour 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do whatever is in your heart. that is the best thing for everyone involved. think about your b/f though. does he have any children of his own? if not that may be what he is looking for and plus just because you have a baby doesn't mean you can't have a career. good luck i hope you make a good decision.
2007-06-28 14:35:14 · answer #2 · answered by Supermommy!!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at this point, you need to concentrate on the career, so that you can provide for yourself and those kids. Tell BF that if he wants kids, it will wait till you graduate and get to work, and he puts a ring on your finger. He will either support you, or he won't. either way, you'll have your answer about him and your future.
Good Luck
2007-06-28 14:39:45 · answer #3 · answered by randy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on your career for a year or so and see if you both want babies then and maybe get married to show more of a comitment and see what you want then.
Good Luck x
2007-06-28 14:35:55 · answer #4 · answered by ωєℓѕн 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my brother's wife had just finished her teaching degree when she fell pregnant with my nephew, and had another child 3 years later. Now my youngest nephew is 4 and she runs a childminding service from her own home.
Teaching is a useful degree and you can do many things with, I'd say get your degree then have kids, then doing something with your degree in a bit
2007-06-28 14:52:08 · answer #5 · answered by Little Bear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart, if you are unsure about having another child dont do it!
Get your career sorted and then consider another child...when you have qualifications, experience and paid maternity leave!
2007-06-28 15:01:09 · answer #6 · answered by huggz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
finish getting the qualifcations first get a job doing what you want to for about 6 months - a year then have a baby because that way you will be able to back to job once your maternity leave is over.
2007-06-28 15:30:37 · answer #7 · answered by xxsamxx 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is no reason why you cant have both.........many women are successfully parenting while having a career, ok it may be put on hold until after maternity but there is no reason why you cant do it - go for it!!
Xx
2007-06-29 05:07:59 · answer #8 · answered by swelly belly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋