Why do men obess about size?

Question

My boyfriend's penis is slightly smaller than average, and in his opinion that makes it bad. I absolutely love it, though! Trust me, I have been with 'big' men, and it was too much for me. His is just right, but nothing I can say will convince him. He thinks I secretly wish that he was longer or thicker.
What can I do to make him believe me?

For the record, I have told him (verbally and otherwise) how much I love it, so it is not for a lack of trying on my part.

Answer 1

Same reason women obsess about their boobs.

Answer 2

it's difficult. My husband has a pretty average penis but he doesn't want average. I tell him I love the way he is. I tell him I'm sexually pleased. I'm always playing with it and telling him he's sexy. He still thinks he's too small. Did you know that a smaller penis hits the g-spot when a larger penis just passes it completly? All you can do is tell him you love the way he looks and don't use any words that are similar to small or average. Just tell him he's perfect.

Answer 3

You can't. It's a guy thing we deal with. Being one of the "average" sized males, we all want to be bigger, just like small chested women want a bigger chest. I guess it always seems the women in porn always love huge ones and "beg for more". Yes, I know they get paid to speak from a script, but bigger is always better, in a man's mind: big trucks, big tv's, big houses, big yards, etc..

I'm happy with average, the wife is happy with average, and deep down, he is probably happy to. Clue him in that 75% of the world's male population is average (7-8 inches) or below. The candy horse whisle he is after 8-10 is had by only 22% of the males in the world. Only 3% of the world's males are in the "Clydesdale" category.

Answer 4

Size doesn't really matter. It is more of a self consvious thing. Men see everything in the media, or hear from their friends that bigger is better. But there are a lot of girls who don't even like really big ***** because they can't handle it. Now I'm not saying you can't handle it. I'm just saying that a majority of women who say they like it big really don't. So if a man is always obsessing about his dick, let him, because there is no way you can make him think it is big enough already. :)

Answer 5

The penis is the defining object of manhood. Small = less man. It has been programed into some men's brains and probably will be there through eternity. You will NEVER be able to convince him.

Answer 6

We trust you. You seem like you have been with plenty of men. Congrats. Guys equate having a big penis with manliness, sad but true. It's also like guys saying they don't like big boobs. Most guys do so when a guy says he doesn't girls think he is lying. I can speak for a alot of guys when i say we always comment on girls with big boobs.

Answer 7

Probably not much you can do other than tell him what you said here.

I am somewhat the same way, I am between 5.5 - 6" long and 4.5" or so wide and feel inadequate.

Answer 8

General insecurities, many adds address the topic, making those of us who are normal size, feel that there is something wrong with us, that's all.

Answer 9

just tell him that men with bigger packages have more problems developing in their penis. when u have a smaller one, there are no difficulties. maybe you should go on google and type in erections and look at the images.

Answer 10

~During intercourse, make sounds, (moaning) that clearly show how much you enjoy it. You should try to find out why he doesn't believe you. Maybe some other girl convinced him it was too small?
The obsess over it because they are usually insecure.~