at first he was very back and forth on his feelings and it was stressful for me so i asked to stop contacting me for a while. he recently apologized and we've been talking and getting along pretty well. he's decided to come to my appointment's with me and meet up every once in a while just to catch up. all of this makes me feel good because i would rather get along with him since he wants to be in the baby's life but he's seeing a new girl and even though i don't want to be with him it still hurts that he has somebody new so soon. how do i get over feeling hurt, betrayed, and jealous?
2007-06-28 06:06:02 · 3 answers · asked by christina g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It only takes time. Get your mind off of it b/c if you are hurt and depressed all the time you could put the babies health at risk. I am happy you guys are still talking it is important for the child to have both mother and father in it's life. Good Luck. Talk to your Friends and family about how you are feeling, even your doctor if you feel the need to. I am sure they will talk to you. It's human nature to be hurt, jealous and to feel betrayed. You worry about your health and that baby.
2007-06-28 06:14:33 · answer #1 · answered by gia00601 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, its not raising a baby alone, or giving it up for adoption that bothers you, but your stupid feelings that got you in trouble in the first place?????? Get a grip, you can't let feelings run your life. Get a bottom line with your self, demand an education, career training. Tell your self, "Self, this loose sex, is no more. I'm getting on with a life choice that will support more choices for my life. Men come after that. I will join a church and make something good out of my life for the next 4years." Hooking up is getting you into a raw deal, your not educated, and after a good education, the world of men will look different to you, cause you'll be independent baby!
2007-06-28 13:32:45 · answer #2 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it will be hard for you but those emotions are natural for your situation. in time they will fade and you will live seperate lives. until then you will have to ride it out. take care and get inn contact if you need to talk. R.
2007-06-28 13:36:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋