so much Hatred??

Question

What do you do when your heart is filled with so much hatred towards your own family??

Answer 1

talk to them about it and if you can't talk to them talk to a therapist. You have issues.

Answer 2

Wow you really shouldn't feel that way towards your own family. They are the people who most care about you and would protect you and love you. Whatever has happened to make you feel this way I would try to work it out. Everyone needs their family at one point in their life or another. Family is important and you only live once so don't waste time holding onto hatred that can be worked out now. Do something about it today. Dont' wait any longer...

Answer 3

question it. Why do you hate your family. I used to hate mine because I was scared I was everything they said I was, or would be like them.
So question it! Sometimes people dont know how to handle thier surroundings in a way that is beneficial to everyone and hurt causes anger then hatred. So ask yourself what are you actually scared of? If your scared that youll end up like them ...look for some of the good qualities. If it is because of some type of abuse remember that there is nothing wrong with you. I would vent whether that is listening to music, drawing, writing... I would vent. Just the fact that it concerns you shows that you are a very compassionate person who probably is talented in more ways then you know. Dont let the hate consume you and let it overcome you.

Answer 4

I don't believe that it's hatred. It may be disappointment or anger. However,first, you have to come to grips with why are you feeling these negative feelings toward your family. After getting the answer to that question, you may look at the situation differently.

Whatever, you need to talk about your feelings with a friend, teacher, or pastor.

Answer 5

Believe me I can relate!! Its not hatred tho'. Its just disappointments and dealing with crazy people!! I feel like that sometimes, but u must understand that some people are really stuck in there ways and u have 2 love them anyway~. Its crazy but, it is true

Answer 6

You forgive them. I know this sounds hard and maybe even you're thinking to yourself that you won't be able to but think about this--those people that you hate, they can't feel it, touch it, eat it, they go to sleep at night not even thinking about it and i know that it bothers you deeply. So, try forgive them. Inhale---think or say there name out loud--and exhale--and let it go as your breathe leaves your body. Then when you sense yourself almost about to remember THE OLD--which is what it is--do exactly the opposite of what your emotions are telling you to do. Counter that with happiness-speak to them, smile. Have you ever thought about the fact that some people really WANT to see you unhappy? I mean, counter exactly what people expect from you? Forgive them--Good Luck!

Answer 7

Maybe you could talk to them, or talk with a certified therapist or counselor. You could also try to forgive them for their misgivings. I'm sorry you have so much hatred.....remember, hatred is only hurting you! It won't help solve anything.

Answer 8

If this is the case, you need to tell a school counselor or go see a mental health professional. If there is a good reason for the feelings, you need to request to live at a foster home. And, if your feelings are not based on sound reasoning, you defintiely need professional mental health to help you resolve things.

Answer 9

I step back and really try to see whats there in front of me. Why is there hatred, whats the cause and what can I do to make it better for me....You have to ask those questions to yourself. If its that bad...get out before it gets worse.

Answer 10

Open your heart to things around you that helps to put things in perspective and find positive ways to effect change. Talk to close friends, counselors, your church etc. and try to forgive.

Did you know that there are approximately 114,000 children waiting for adoptive families in the United States foster care system.

http://www.adoptuskids.org/resourceCenter/aboutTheChildren.aspx

Good luck

Answer 11

I dont know your reason why? You hate your family so much but you must find it in your heart for forgive them, if they have wronged you in the past. Get some help.