i dont care if u think i'm a whore or something cause i'm not. i was single and i was friends with this guy. he talked me into having sex now i'm pregnant. due in dec. i got a boyfriend who loves me and loves my baby. the bio daddy, my boyfriend, and me got into this whole lawyer deal for the bio daddy to sign his rights away as a parent. now he's back around the neighborhood and acts like he wants the rights back. what am i supposed to do? i dont want the bio daddy in my baby's life because i feel he just used me after the girl he really wanted rejected him. i would much rather have my boyfriend father my baby even if he's not the bio daddy. what can be done? what can the bio daddy do? can he get his rights back after giving them away on his own free will?
2007-06-28 05:01:44 · 3 answers · asked by Baby Jewels 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
If he gave them away, chances are he can't get them back. It would be for the benfit of your child if you were all to act like adults and sit down and reach an agreement so that everyone can be involved in the babies life, the more people who love the child the better.
2007-06-28 05:07:02 · answer #1 · answered by Lori B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is not if you are a "whore" but what is best for your yet unborn child. If the "bio" father has already signed off his parental rights, and a court has entered an order to that effect, then you must decide if your "boyfriend" really wants to step up and father this child. Parental rights are not like a toy that you can bounce back and forth. If you really believe that the "bio" father is not the best father for your child, do not fall into his guilt trip of trying to get you to re-establish his rights. Stay away from him and avoid all contact with him. Best of luck.
2007-06-28 12:10:01 · answer #2 · answered by docholiday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to have a court judgement not just signing in front of a lawyer. If you did go to court then there is not much he can do legally. That said nothing is mentioned about him other than you feel used by him. Would he be a good influence on the child? It is not always a good thing to keep a father away. Does he realize if he gets his rights back what it will entail( the responsibities and support)?
2007-06-28 12:14:34 · answer #3 · answered by mnwomen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋